My sister is trying (I'm pregnant)

And before I post this for her, I really don't think she needs another kid and if you read this you'll figure out the same.

I got pregnant this year. I'm 30 weeks now I'm almost 20. My sister is 7 years older than me, and has one son who is 7 now. But after she had him she had multiple abortions her and her boyfriends thing was 'they didn't like condoms'

Since I got pregnant all I hear about is how much she NEEDS to get pregnant. And how much it NEEDS to be a girl. Etc. etc., I'm having the first born girl since I was born, after me it was all boys. But she say's she's been trying to get pregnant, or claims she has been since last December. (Though mind you I'm 30 weeks and this didn't come up until I was 5 months) and she can't. The women in my family are really fertile. and she can't seem to get pregnant. She's done lots of drugs. Pretty much all of them at some point or another, especially the last few years. (Including that stupid fake pot smurf that's apparently illegal, and really dangerous now) And she's had 3-4 abortions a couple back to back one or two spread out. She's been beat up (Severely) do to jail time...*Ugh* Sorry she say's she wants to get all the factors in here... I really wouldn't be proud of any of this.... all of those physical factors. Does anyone think she could be infertile now? Btw she's a full grown adult-child she is 27.


p.s.
I don't do any of these things. If you read any of my post, most explain how I do this on my own, in vague detail. This would be why... 

Forgot the part where she wont see a doctor. And aside from google I told her I may know a place, but she'd probably get poor feed back. Or I would depending on how people read this. She should just go to a doctor right?!

She's 27. She is a big girl who can make her own choices.

Does she still do these things? Because if she does, I'm glad the whole "trying" thing isn't working for her  

I get that. I just thought a doctor would know. But I told her there were people here who are going through things like this, and she wanted a post here. But doesn't want to make an account. She's not afraid to openly admit things if no one knows who she is. Which I understand. you're right she's a big girl, and by adult-child, I mean she still acts like one, and depends on people like one would.

I would imagine all those abortions have left behind scarring, thus no pregnancy now. I hope she cleans up..

She's grown. She can make her own choices. Even if you think they are wrong.

Quoting Bettinas:" Does she still do these things? Because if she does, I'm glad the whole "trying" thing isn't working for her  "

Kind of said the same thing, and got bitched out by my mother and then my sister ignored me for a few months. Just started talking again with this was brought up. She was arrested on child neglect though the charge was dropped and is on probation so hopefully no, but I really hated dropping my nephew off with her last Sunday after taking him to see Christmas lights I swore I smelled alcohol. I really can't be sure we don't hang out and she wouldn't tell me. I've already had custody of my nephew once.

Quoting HopingforaMiracle:" She's grown. She can make her own choices. Even if you think they are wrong."

I understand that, sorry it was just an opinion. The rest of the post even though my opinions are tagged in it, was to be written completely bold, and outright honest to the point where I almost didn't want to post it. She just wants to know if there may be someone out there who have done all these things and found out they're infertile now.

The things tht have been done by her choice may have caused damage, it does sadden me the choices she made but shes a big girl. Shes been ecpectant three times, with everything it would be her best interest to go see a doctor. For her healths sake.

Her past has absolutely no bearing on her present ability to provide for a kid, and you need to stop being a jealous, judgmental bitch.

Quoting Viv, Ev & Gwen ♥:" Her past has absolutely no bearing on her present ability to provide for a kid, and you need to stop being a jealous, judgmental bitch."

Whoa me?
Where does jealous come in. Judgmental a little yeah. Having already had custody and a few other things but even then not judgmental. Wary is a better word. And She doesn't work, and cannot drive anymore, when you watch your sister spend the last 20 she had on beer, and then buy her son a 2 happy meal instead of something a little more filling and healthy. yeah I can say I don't think she's fit anymore. But where I live DCF doesn't do smurf. For someone who was too drunk to drive and got out of her car parked it on the side of the road. Called us all telling us she was lost and freaking out, and the cops were following her all the while my nephew at the time 6 was walking around southside barefoot, and then watch the charges of child neglect get dropped? and still not judge her, and be there for her 8 weeks later. Ok I'm a bitch. next please. I'm asking about her fertility not her ability to parent.

Quoting Carrie Butts:" The things tht have been done by her choice may have caused damage, it does sadden me the choices she ... [snip!] ... girl. Shes been ecpectant three times, with everything it would be her best interest to go see a doctor. For her healths sake."

That's what I was saying when I said I really just thinks he should see a doctor.
She wanted to know, if she could possibly be infertile. I don't want to argue about my views on her parenting. Please.

How judgmental of you. She's a grown woman. Some people may be wary of YOUR parenting ability considering that you're still a teenager. Worry about yourself.