re: My sister is trying (I'm pregnant)

Quoting Chelsea.J:" That's what I was saying when I said I really just thinks he should see a doctor. She wanted to know, ... [snip!] ... doctor. She wanted to know, if she could possibly be infertile. I don't want to argue about my views on her parenting. Please."

Your entire post was clearly directed toward her inability to parent. I think one sentence of that entire post was actually about her fertility.  

I don't know how many time's I've read how age doesn't matter. Until it's convenient to throw in someones face. Don't care. Again this was about fertility.

<blockquote><b>Quoting mommytoisaiah(+eden):</b>" Your entire post was clearly directed toward her inability to parent. I think one sentence of that entire post was actually about her fertility.  "</blockquote>


I totally agree. If this wasnt about her ability to parent she wouldn't have posted the first part and just went to the fertility part

Quoting Chelsea.J:" Whoa me? Where does jealous come in. Judgmental a little yeah. Having already had custody and a few ... [snip!] ... her, and be there for her 8 weeks later. Ok I'm a bitch. next please. I'm asking about her fertility not her ability to parent."

Still just seeing giant blocks of raging smurf text. Who the smurf are you to judge her parenting because she gives her kid a smurfing happy meal? Pop your kid out before you say smurf.

Quoting Chelsea.J:" I don't know how many time's I've read how age doesn't matter. Until it's convenient to throw in someones face. Don't care. Again this was about fertility."

Age doesn't matter, the majority of the time. My point is that you shouldn't throw stones, no matter what your opinion is. I'm sure there are people that have opinions of your age. It's just a matter of learning how to keep your opinions to yourself.

And again, 90% of this post was just listing the reasons that you think she should reproduce.

When you gain custody at 19 over a 27 year old is when.

Quoting Viv, Ev & Gwen ♥:" Still just seeing giant blocks of raging smurf text. Who the smurf are you to judge her parenting because she gives her kid a smurfing happy meal? Pop your kid out before you say smurf."

 

Quoting mommytoisaiah(+eden):" Age doesn't matter, the majority of the time. My point is that you shouldn't throw stones, no matter ... [snip!] ... keep your opinions to yourself. And again, 90% of this post was just listing the reasons that you think she should reproduce."

Alright. You're right. This was a very judgmental post. I prefaced in the beginning, and then I went on to venting instead of concentrating on the fertility questions we had. I should have added in my opinion. I know how mad I do get when someone tries to call out my age, and tag that into possible lack of parenting skills.

shouldn't have*
Sorry typos bug me.

Quoting Chelsea.J:" When you gain custody at 19 over a 27 year old is when. "

I'm not sure who that's directed towards, but I have two problems with that.
1) I don't know any judge that would legally grant custody to a 19 year old. If she just handed the baby off to you for a little while (which I'm sure is what really happened), that's not "gaining custody." It's babysitting.
2) You haven't even had your kid yet. Don't judge her parenting style until you are a parent yourself.

Quoting Chelsea.J:" When you gain custody at 19 over a 27 year old is when. "

I notice you don't have custody now and you're still 19, so that smurf couldn't have been that big of a deal, huh.

Quoting Chelsea.J:" Alright. You're right. This was a very judgmental post. I prefaced in the beginning, and then I went ... [snip!] ... opinion. I know how mad I do get when someone tries to call out my age, and tag that into possible lack of parenting skills. "

That's fine. I would also like to point out the fact that even though "all the women in your family are really fertile," you posted on your own 'about me' that you were told you couldn't get pregnant. So don't blame her infertility on drugs and abortions, when you had the same problem yourself.

I agree with Viv, I really dislike people who think they are better than others

All drama aside, to answer OP's question... between the drugs, abortions, and physical abuse, there is a very good possibility she will have trouble concieving.. the possibility that there was damage is increased even more if she had surgical abortions (especially ones done at cheap shady places). I dont know her, nor am I a doctor so if SHE wants to know if shes fertile or not, shed have to see an OB. Something SHE would do, if SHE really cared to become pregnant.

Quoting mommytoisaiah(+eden):" That's fine. I would also like to point out the fact that even though "all the women in your family ... [snip!] ... told you couldn't get pregnant. So don't blame her infertility on drugs and abortions, when you had the same problem yourself."

You're right I shouldn't.
I still got pregnant it was carrying to term I couldn't do but all in all, same idea.
And I still got pregnant and some how managed to make it this far.