I never feel anxious....

But lately since SO is gone all the time, i just get anxious. not over anything in particular but I can feel it in my chest and then get all sad that im home alone for another night, yet again. For those mommas who have hubbies that are gone for periods of time, do you feel the same way? i get so bored, like im waiting for something. but its actually nothing.. idk..



Off topic though, I had my prengancy confirmed today, and scheduled an US for the 19th, im pretty excited. They said my Due date is the 20th, but we will see. i think they are wrong.anyway im excited.

I always felt like that! Imagine how I felt when he left for 5 days!

yeah you are waiting for something....your hubby to get home lol.
Mine works 7 and 7 so i am home alone lots! I dont mind it now...ive become accustomed to it sicne its been like this for 6 years now.

I felt like this when SO was out of town for 6 months straight. After about 3 months the kids and I settled into a routine and I kinda forgot we were waiting for him to even come home. Your gonna get used to it!!

Quoting *Lindsey*(8 weeks):" yeah you are waiting for something....your hubby to get home lol. Mine works 7 and 7 so i am home alone lots! I dont mind it now...ive become accustomed to it sicne its been like this for 6 years now."

yeah mine works out of town from monday to friday. sometimes satruday. and if he doesnt work saturday, he has union class on saturday all day. and then i work the saturdays and sundays that I can. : / i hardly see him. it sucks.

i dont mind being home all day with the kids since i try to stay busy and make the day go by, but lately im feeling so anxious. ugh and i hate it, idk if its pregnancy or what

Quoting TheyCallMeMOMMY♥:" I felt like this when SO was out of town for 6 months straight. After about 3 months the kids and I settled ... [snip!] ... the kids and I settled into a routine and I kinda forgot we were waiting for him to even come home. Your gonna get used to it!!"

i shoulud be by now. he has been doing this since september. i just need to have friends over adn stuff. bnut they are all busy too with stuff!

Yeah I feel like that when DH is gone. It sucks! He's gone 2 weeks out of every month I hate hate hate it but we really have no choice. It pays the bills.

Quoting ☮ Phuket:" i shoulud be by now. he has been doing this since september. i just need to have friends over adn stuff. bnut they are all busy too with stuff!"

  Im sorry!! Keep yourself occupied, read a good book!  

Yeah,i'm feeling like that now. My man is out town for work has been for a week. He come's back 2morrow and i can't wait.  

DH randomly goes to schools (military) for weeks-months at a time. The first time, it really sucked. I'd never been in a relationship like that before.
But now, I appreciate the time we have apart, lol! Don't get me wrong, I love him to death and I miss him so bad it hurts when he's gone, but it helps our relationship grow. It helps build trust and all that "distance makes the heart grow fonder" jazz.

And it's one less person to clean up after ;D

Yup I regularly feel this way. But hey, congrats on the pregnancy!  

I have felt this way too.
The longest he was gone ever was on a year deployment.. and I had that anxiety but as time went by it got alot better and I kept busier.

Look on the bright side.
even if he keeps this up, you'll just keep popping out babies anyway. They'll occupy you.

Quoting Mayhem.:" Look on the bright side. even if he keeps this up, you'll just keep popping out babies anyway. They'll occupy you."

he is getting a vasectomy right after the baby is born, so i doubt i will keep "popping out babies" but thanks. they occupy me for sure. But i still need my partner to help me feel complete.

Quoting Mayhem.:" Look on the bright side. even if he keeps this up, you'll just keep popping out babies anyway. They'll occupy you."