Quoting Commander Shepard:" I am such an ass. My husband's step-brother and his wife have been trying to get pregnant and she recently ... [snip!] ... spending Thanksgiving with her parents and didn't come over when I was down there and I feel like it's because of me. "Why are you an ass? It's not your fault, and plus, you're due at the end of January, so it's not like she hasn't known for awhile that you've been pregnant..