re: gut feeling...

<blockquote><b>Quoting Carla DiFiore:</b>" I wish you best , And if you need any help let me know. I'm sahm and I'll look into anything and ask question about any programs to help you out. If you need the help."</blockquote>




Thank you.

i would find that very confusing talk to him and ask him whats going on

Quoting LIVE.OUT.LOUD:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Super Mommy!:</b>" Did you check his call records? Don't stay ... [snip!] ... work.. but he wants me to stay home. That and we only have 1 car and no babysitter... we can't afford daycare. I hate it..."

I absolutely agree with Carla. Getting a job on opposite shifts as him is a great idea, and saving your money into your own savings account is also another great idea. Are you going to talk to him about the suspicious numbers? Don't settle because you're afraid. It's nice that he wants you to be a SAHM, but you need to look out for your children and your own best interest if he isn't going to be a good partner and be loyal. Are you able to get another car? I highly suggest finding a job in the mean time, and going from there.

That definitely seems weird. ESPECIALLY sleeping with his phone in his pocket. Who does that?

Did you confront him again?

Quoting Carla DiFiore:" I would work opposite shift than he does and let him watch the kids , to avoid daycare fees. And just ... [snip!] ... stay with someone just because it what your use too. You dont deserve be cheated on and lied to if that what he is doing."

This! OP I hope things get better for you soon. I'm sorry you're going through this, stay strong mama.

Quoting SailorJerry:" I'd be suspicious too. Sounds like you already did confront him, and nothing came of it. Maybe wait ... [snip!] ... for advice, but can you show up at his work place the days he claims he has to stay late and see if he is actually there?"

the last part is a good idea!