Quoting LIVE.OUT.LOUD:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Super Mommy!:</b>" Did you check his call records? Don't stay ... [snip!] ... work.. but he wants me to stay home. That and we only have 1 car and no babysitter... we can't afford daycare. I hate it..."
I absolutely agree with Carla. Getting a job on opposite shifts as him is a great idea, and saving your money into your own savings account is also another great idea. Are you going to talk to him about the suspicious numbers? Don't settle because you're afraid. It's nice that he wants you to be a SAHM, but you need to look out for your children and your own best interest if he isn't going to be a good partner and be loyal. Are you able to get another car? I highly suggest finding a job in the mean time, and going from there.