re: gut feeling...

<blockquote><b>Quoting Super Mommy!:</b>" Yes you can. We have tmobile too, I'm looking at my call records as we speak. Are you on a family plan? If so, create your own account to log on online and you can view it that way too."</blockquote>




I just signed in. What should I click to see the call logs? I don't see that option..

I'd say something to him about it. You're not being paranoid.

Quoting That Girl.:" I'd be that crazy bitch who would would be waiting nearby his work, wait until he gets off and follow where he goes.... But Im nutz."

haha me too, well I have in the past with my ex.

Quoting That Girl.:" I'd be that crazy bitch who would would be waiting nearby his work, wait until he gets off and follow where he goes.... But Im nutz."

lmfao!  

Quoting LIVE.OUT.LOUD:"When I got up in the morning I got on our tablet and the internet was pulled up to Craig's list with an add for a girl looking for a "good time". I got a little suspicious and started looking through the history. He had looked at 13 other posts exactly like it. All in our area and our age... I confronted him about it and he said he was just curious to see what stupid girls posted on Craigslist."

Speaking from experience here. Just because he is looking at personal ads, doesn't mean he is actually acting on it.

However, it probably means he is unhappy about something in his relationship, and he's at least curious to see what else is out there.

Quoting Burs92447:" Speaking from experience here. Just because he is looking at personal ads, doesn't mean he is actually ... [snip!] ... it probably means he is unhappy about something in his relationship, and he's at least curious to see what else is out there."

Maybe he hasn't acted on it yet. But is most likely thinking of doing so.

Quoting LIVE.OUT.LOUD:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Super Mommy!:</b>" Yes you can. We have tmobile too, I'm looking ... [snip!] ... it that way too."</blockquote> I just signed in. What should I click to see the call logs? I don't see that option.."

scroll down and click on check usage, when that loads click on minutes. then it should load the most recent call records list.

Quoting That Girl.:" Maybe he hasn't acted on it yet. But is most likely thinking of doing so."

Yeah, he may or may not. It depends on his personality and how unhappy he might be in his relationship.

Trust your gut!!!!!! I didn't listen to my intuition about my BD. Screwed myself for years.

Thanks everyone! I just don't know why he would be unhappy... and I've asked and he says he is happy.. I'm just really confused and hurt... my gut hasn't been wrong before... him and his family took me in from a shelter.. I had been in shelters since I was 17.. I'm scared if I'm right and we end up breaking up me and the kids will go back and I don't want that for them... I just don't know what to do...

Quoting LIVE.OUT.LOUD:" Thanks everyone! I just don't know why he would be unhappy... and I've asked and he says he is happy.. ... [snip!] ... right and we end up breaking up me and the kids will go back and I don't want that for them... I just don't know what to do..."

Did you check his call records? Don't stay with him because of fear of going back to a shelter. Try to do things to get back on your own 2 feet. Go to school, get a part time job. It's important to always have a plan B even in a healthy and happy relationship, just in case something unexpectedly happens and you're on your own with your kids.

<blockquote><b>Quoting Super Mommy!:</b>" Did you check his call records? Don't stay with him because of fear of going back to a shelter. Try ... [snip!] ... B even in a healthy and happy relationship, just in case something unexpectedly happens and you're on your own with your kids."</blockquote>




Yeah he had a few suspicious numbers.... I wish I had a job... he wants me to be a sahm.. I like being a sahm but I've worked since I was 16 and would much rather work.. but he wants me to stay home. That and we only have 1 car and no babysitter... we can't afford daycare. I hate it...

Quoting LIVE.OUT.LOUD:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Super Mommy!:</b>" Did you check his call records? Don't stay ... [snip!] ... work.. but he wants me to stay home. That and we only have 1 car and no babysitter... we can't afford daycare. I hate it..."

I would work opposite shift than he does and let him watch the kids , to avoid daycare fees. And just take all money your getting from it and stick it into a saving account with only your name on it. So if you decide to leave you can stand on your own 2 feet. And the so many programs out there help single moms with kids you can sign up for like food stamps, hud housing, and so on. You shouldnt stay with someone just because it what your use too. You dont deserve be cheated on and lied to if that what he is doing.

<blockquote><b>Quoting Carla DiFiore:</b>" I would work opposite shift than he does and let him watch the kids , to avoid daycare fees. And just ... [snip!] ... stay with someone just because it what your use too. You dont deserve be cheated on and lied to if that what he is doing."</blockquote>



Yeah... I'm going to confront him tonight. I've been looking into programs too. I called the numbers and no one answered. 2 didn't have a voicemail set up but one did and it was some chick named Krystal.. so tonight I will know if I'm leaving him..

Quoting LIVE.OUT.LOUD:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Carla DiFiore:</b>" I would work opposite shift than he does ... [snip!] ... 2 didn't have a voicemail set up but one did and it was some chick named Krystal.. so tonight I will know if I'm leaving him.."

I wish you best , And if you need any help let me know. I'm sahm and I'll look into anything and ask question about any programs to help you out. If you need the help.