re: gut feeling...

Call his job and ask his boss if he really has been staying late.

<blockquote><b>Quoting SailorJerry:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting LIVE.OUT.LOUD:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting That ... [snip!] ... the same way. If I had a car I would be doing that too..."</blockquote> What if you have someone take you, a friend?"</blockquote>




That's a good idea. I could see.

<blockquote><b>Quoting LIVE.OUT.LOUD:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting SailorJerry:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting LIVE.OUT.LOUD:</b>" ... [snip!] ... What if you have someone take you, a friend?"</blockquote> That's a good idea. I could see."</blockquote>




Also, check the phone records if you feel like that would show anything.

If I were you I would be too scared to marry him then..because what if you find out something was up after you got married?

<blockquote><b>Quoting Super Mommy!:</b>" Does he have a cell phone?"</blockquote>




Yeah he does. But he keeps it on him 24/7. Even when he sleeps its in his pocket..

If he has a cell phone, go online and check his call records.

<blockquote><b>Quoting Super Mommy!:</b>" If he has a cell phone, go online and check his call records."</blockquote>



How do I do that? And he is the primary person on it so could I still do it? We have t mobile.

Quoting LIVE.OUT.LOUD:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Super Mommy!:</b>" Does he have a cell phone?"</blockquote> Yeah he does. But he keeps it on him 24/7. Even when he sleeps its in his pocket.."

Well if that doesn't scream red flags, I don't know what does. I wouldn't normally suggest this, but if there's a way you can check his call log online, you should do that ASAP.

Quoting LIVE.OUT.LOUD:" <blockquote><b>Quoting That Girl.:</b>" I'd be that crazy bitch who would would be ... [snip!] ... and follow where he goes.... But Im nutz."</blockquote> I'm the same way. If I had a car I would be doing that too..."

i had that happen with my hubby. he had a close female "friend" which i was ok with cause i never minded him having opposite sex friends. but she seemed odd....she would call/text all hours of the night, i mean blow his phone up! then he got to where he was secretive about it!?!?!?!? told me he was going to go get a beer and watch the game with his friend AJ....i called and friend and we snooped and he was with her. i knew something wasnt right....its a long story but we are still together and even to this day he "secretly" texts and calls her...as if i dont know about it lol all this happened when i was 8 weeks pregnant...im now 34 weeks....so u could imagine my crazy emotions at that point

Quoting LIVE.OUT.LOUD:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Super Mommy!:</b>" If he has a cell phone, go online and check ... [snip!] ... records."</blockquote> How do I do that? And he is the primary person on it so could I still do it? We have t mobile."

Yes you can. We have tmobile too, I'm looking at my call records as we speak. Are you on a family plan? If so, create your own account to log on online and you can view it that way too.

Quoting LIVE.OUT.LOUD:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Super Mommy!:</b>" Does he have a cell phone?"</blockquote> Yeah he does. But he keeps it on him 24/7. Even when he sleeps its in his pocket.."

He's doing something, i can tell you for a fact. DH used to do that smurf when he was messing around and that was one of the things that told me for sure. Along with him sleeping in the room and locking the door (he worked graveyard shift)

Quoting SailorJerry:" <blockquote><b>Quoting LIVE.OUT.LOUD:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting SailorJerry:</b>" ... [snip!] ... a good idea. I could see."</blockquote> Also, check the phone records if you feel like that would show anything."

Completely off topic, but when I see your name I relive the night I got trashed on sailor jerry and puked everywhere.  

I would definitely check phone records.. especially see if you recognize any of the Craigslist numbers.. and you could either wait by and see what happens or do what I did with my ex that cheated.. pretty much the same situation.. I told him that I didn't need him I only wanted him if he didn't straighten up I didn't want him anymore.. if he wanted to play around just go ahead and leave because I could do the same and there was no sense playing games because I was too old.. he kept lying.. I called the numbers on the phone bill then servedhim with divorce papers.. then when he wouldn't sign them I called all those numbers again and told them to tell him to sign the divorce papers ...

I hope things are different for you.. I know these situations suck!

Quoting Stevie Renae™:" Call his job and ask his boss if he really has been staying late."

I would probably call and ask if he's there and tell his boss you couldn't get through on his cell.... So that you don't look crazyy.

<blockquote><b>Quoting That Girl.:</b>" Completely off topic, but when I see your name I relive the night I got trashed on sailor jerry and puked everywhere.  "</blockquote>




Haha. I love sailor jerry when im on a budget and pre gaming it before I head to a bar lmaooo

OP- we have tmobile too,.you can check online if you have a family plan