Quoting Melxx:" My daughter seen this guy outside the other day and it resembled her father and she ran to the window ... [snip!] ... "Daddy Daddy" and then ran to the front door smiling and laughing and knocking on it and My heart broke right there "
Things like this always kill me too..
They don't realize how their actions will affect their children sadly..
This also does get easier day by day.. My sons father hasnt even spoken to him in six months. We have our days, but most of the time hes content with just mommy.