And I don't mean his junk. If someone was overweight, would that make them any more or less attractive to you? Just curious.

I would be a liar if I said it doesn't matter. A little over the years... it's whatever.. but gaining a ton over a short amount of time? Ehhh

Not only is it stressful on the body but it can be stressful on the relationship.

Not going to lie, I go for slimmer men.

Just my preference.

and if you mean like at first meeting? I can't say for sure... I met a guy recently, a friends brother, and he is overweight and I found him very very charming. So yeah... I'm torn on that one.

Just a little overweight? Sure. Not super fat though. Im fat, I just can't be with a fat man. As a matter of fact all my boyfriends have been muscular, including the one I have now lol.

Quoting T-Swizzle+2:" and if you mean like at first meeting? I can't say for sure... I met a guy recently, a friends brother, and he is overweight and I found him very very charming. So yeah... I'm torn on that one. "

I just meant in general. I have only ever been with one guy who was overweight and I wasn't physically attracted to him and it didn't last.

A little pudge is ok! If he's morbidly obese, then no.

Ugggghh that is hard cause I have been with both big & little guys. I like for my man to be a little fit.

I would rather have a guy who is fit. Because that shows he takes care of himself.

Quoting Ꭶwan♥Nemö:" Just a little overweight? Sure. Not super fat though. Im fat, I just can't be with a fat man. As a matter of fact all my boyfriends have been muscular, including the one I have now lol."

Yeah, I think it's kind of shallow and I am shamed of myself because I am overweight but I wouldn't go for an overweight guy, because I find it hard to be attracted to them. Does that make me hypocrite? Probably :/

Ive never been a fan of twiggy men, I like a man to have nice butt and that football player build. My df carrys weight well!!

Quoting Ellie Shikari:" And I don't mean his junk. If someone was overweight, would that make them any more or less attractive to you? Just curious. "

yes call me shallow but goe te same for a super skinny person i showed SO a pic of me a couple years ago and onenow and asked which one he perfered he said inbetween (we are both trying to lose weight) some girls love super skinny guys and some like the cunky ones if SO wasas skinny as he was at 14 no i woudnt find him as attractive if hews 50lbs more i wouldnt find him as attractive

Its different for everyone. I personally prefer guys that have meat on their bones but wont date someone who is extremely big. I also wont date someone who is super skinny. Call me picky I guess... lol I'm not skinny but I'm not huge either and I don't want a Guy that I feel like I could break in half lmao

I don't think so... lol

I had a bf in high school, I guess he would be my, "1 that got away" and he was bigger, he had an adorable face, he kinda looked like Baby Bash *don't laugh* he played baseball, he was perfect to me... I seen him few years after we broke up, he had lost weight and he wasn't attractive to me at all...

Quoting Ellie Shikari:" Yeah, I think it's kind of shallow and I am shamed of myself because I am overweight but I wouldn't ... [snip!] ... I wouldn't go for an overweight guy, because I find it hard to be attracted to them. Does that make me hypocrite? Probably :/"

well my reason is some things just wouldnt work...physically. Ive seen some sexy Big Mellows. Its just we probably wouldnt fit in the bedroom.