Quoting Xander's Mumma:" what bothers me the most is that I'm constantly giving and giving and giving, and getting nothing. it's ... [snip!] ... and thats it. sometimes i get off, sometimes i don't. i strongly believe in foreplay, yet he doesn't return the favor. nothing."
Quoting →Ebahϖ:" if he doesnt want the lady juices you could tell him to eat your butt out insted. not a whole lot of juices going on there xD"
Quoting →Ebahϖ:" if he doesnt want the lady juices you could tell him to eat your butt out insted. not a whole lot of juices going on there xD"OMG
Quoting .Colleen.:" See, thats the problem imo He is not making you a priority."
Quoting Xander's Mumma:" LMAO! that just made me cringe a little "
Quoting Xander's Mumma:" Exactly! I mean it would be so different if I got off before we even had sex, because sex seriously ... [snip!] ... only a couple of minutes because "we never had sex" i would want to have sex more if i actually got something out of it. "
Quoting .Colleen.:" I would def tell him how it makes you feel Maybe if he realizes it, he may try a little harder"
Quoting Xander's Mumma:" I hope so! Maybe it's like an experience thing with him.. he hasn't been with many girls and he lost his vcard when he was 22. he's almost 25 now.. I dunnno"
Quoting .Colleen.:" I mean, you don't want to pressure him to do stuff he does not like, but it would be nice if he made ... [snip!] ... it all over me, but I can take one for the team, if you kwim its a matter of making your partners happiness a priority"
Quoting Xander's Mumma:" Yes! Every once in a while I'll let him blow it in my mouth, and honestly I HATE that, but I'll do it ... [snip!] ... down with him when he gets home and hopefully we can come up with something! But last night he did not seem too thrilled at all"
Quoting .Colleen.:" I think you need to be sure he knows that you are doing something for him that you don't necessarily like but because he is your partner, his happiness is important to you. "
Quoting kimzog:" Oral is very important to both me and my SO. We both give each other oral basically everytime we have ... [snip!] ... I think you should suck it up and do it here and there because you love someone and you know it may be important to them."