Im currently pregnant with #2 and scared smurfless how dd will be. Shes excited to have a baby sister or brother but how will i deal with it? The first night i found out i was pregnant i cried because i dont know how i could love another.child like i.do her :/ it might be crazy idk.. Plus im scared my hubs will act diff seeinv as this will be his bio child. Any advice? Is it normal to feel this way?
It's normal, and you will adapt without even thinking about it.
You'll make room to love another kid---and if he's worth his salt, so will he and there will be no difference. PLUS---watching your kids love and get to know each other is this whole new, cool, thing you'll get to see.
I was in the exact same situation 18 months ago hun! My DD was my world and I couldn't understand how I could still love her while loving the new baby, but its weird, its not like you have to share the love you have for your current child, its like u get a whole lot more love to give out and my DD isn't my DF's bio child, he doesn't treat them any differently, he's been the only dad she's ever known and as far as he's concerned he's her dad, regardless of DNA. Congrats on your pregnancy, feel free to pt and pm me if you wanna talk x