Multiple children.
posted 5th Dec
Im currently pregnant with #2 and scared smurfless how dd will be. Shes excited to have a baby sister or brother but how will i deal with it? The first night i found out i was pregnant i cried because i dont know how i could love another.child like i.do her :/ it might be crazy idk.. Plus im scared my hubs will act diff seeinv as this will be his bio child. Any advice? Is it normal to feel this way?
quotesmurfs?posted 5th Dec
It's normal, and you will adapt without even thinking about it.
You'll make room to love another kid---and if he's worth his salt, so will he and there will be no difference. PLUS---watching your kids love and get to know each other is this whole new, cool, thing you'll get to see.
quoteposted 5th Dec
Normal feelings. The whole time i was pregnant with my son i worried i wouldnt love him but the second i saw him i loved him so much.
quoteposted 5th Dec
I was in the exact same situation 18 months ago hun! My DD was my world and I couldn't understand how I could still love her while loving the new baby, but its weird, its not like you have to share the love you have for your current child, its like u get a whole lot more love to give out and my DD isn't my DF's bio child, he doesn't treat them any differently, he's been the only dad she's ever known and as far as he's concerned he's her dad, regardless of DNA. Congrats on your pregnancy, feel free to pt and pm me if you wanna talk x
quoteposted 5th Dec
well its definitely a relief im not the only one. i thought i was just over reacting. lol
everyday DD asks when she can see her baby sister. lol :|
she wants it to be a girl so she can share her dolls.
its exciting that shes excited.
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