re: Working Husband...Suspicious Behavior?

Quoting Brianna ♥ {38wks}:" <blockquote><b>Quoting .:ANIMAL:.:</b>" Yeah, I will tomorrow, since he also turned ... [snip!] ... I hope it's nothing. He may have just had a rough day or something. Hopefully everything is okay."

I really do hope it's nothing. My dh is so fantastic, it's just I know he's weak with good looking women, and since I'm still chubby from having both kids, and I'm bald from Chemo, I just feel like he is even weaker whether or not he wants to admit it.

I really think this has more to do with hubby than it does with you. Please don't take that the wrong way (hard to convey the right message on a forum). All of the things you described sounds like a tired man who has maybe been sick? I know it sounds crazy but the minute you let everyone put these ideas in your head you pay entirely too much attention to the stupid little things that really don't mean anything. How long have you been together if you don't mind me asking? I know you said that he is vulnerable to good looking women but if he's never given you a reason to be suspect then I wouldn't put much stock in it.
My suggestion (as a married woman of nearly 6 years) is to let is slide for the night and don't over think it. I say if he gets up for work before the kids hop in the shower with him or make time for the two of you and tell him you really missed his kiss last night. Try not to be accusatory in nature, but explain to him that it makes you feel secure and loved to receive a special kiss from him at the end of the day. I'm sure if you approach your situation using "we" instead of "you, you, you" your husband will automatically provide you with feedback.
Much luck hun and get some rest, insomnia can make you crazy!

Quoting Sarah Snipes:" I really think this has more to do with hubby than it does with you. Please don't take that the wrong ... [snip!] ... you" your husband will automatically provide you with feedback. Much luck hun and get some rest, insomnia can make you crazy!"

We've been together since 4 years ago almost. We've been married since 2011, however during our engagement from 2010-2011 he cheated on me with a friend of mine, he was at a army training camp in Mississippi he got some leave time, and they found time to hook up. He swore up and down after that it would never happen again, however it almost happened again this June when I was pregnant with our daughter (he had a big fight with my father and my father hit him in the back of the head. he left the house and refused to talk to me and ended up meeting up with an ex for coffee and hanging out at her house. He told me nothing happened, still not sure I believe that.)

I'm sorry hunny, I just didn't want it to be like everyone was against. With history of infidelity I would definitely be having a conversation with him. Wish I could offer more...

Quoting Sarah Snipes:" I'm sorry hunny, I just didn't want it to be like everyone was against. With history of infidelity I would definitely be having a conversation with him. Wish I could offer more..."

It's all good, he really is a great husband and father, and I'm hoping it's just me being a silly goober. He could just be super stressed, who knows...guess I will in the morning. lol...or now...gonna go to bed and see if he'll respond to me making a move on him.

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