Reasons you DON'T want to have SEX.

I know, all these sex questions on the boards right now.
I've asked about this in threads before, but didn't understand, and still don't.
And, i want to.

Quick run down on how i think: if i could be having sex all day, every day, i would be. (not in a, uh, slutty way, just in a "always turned on way")

And i honestly (seriously, honestly) thought that that's how everyone's minds worked, up until...well, maybe i joined BG (sorry, not in a bad way  )
And up until i met the guy i'm with now (kid's dad, 4+ years, i think)

So, aside from medical reasons, or schedules, what're reasons you don't want to have sex (aimed at people with naturally lower sex drives)

Like, how do you go to bed with your partner, not having sex, or even thinking of having it?

I would kill for a lower sex drive.

I love that I don't have a lower sex drive..

Quoting Melxx:" I love that I don't have a lower sex drive.."

I used to, but it just leaves me sexually frustrated cos we can't have sex every day with his work schedule.

tired, long day, dont feel good, head ache, but most of all, dont feel good about me! when i am healthier (esp weight wise) i am a lot more prone to say yes...but even then, not really a sexual person

Quoting KNZ.:" I used to, but it just leaves me sexually frustrated cos we can't have sex every day with his work schedule. "

Ugh I know that's how it's been lately with us too, I'm like DIEING aha

If I don't want to have sex its either because I am mad at him or tired. But sometimes I just don't want to, not for any particular reason just not in the mood.

Good question....I don't have a low sex drive tho sorry. It actually used to be super high until I got pregnant with my first now it's pretty normal.

Quoting Melxx:" Ugh I know that's how it's been lately with us too, I'm like DIEING aha"

seriously. i'm like, sitting here, fuming mad that we aren't having sex right now, hahah. but, my daughter's still up, dude's already in bed (he gets up at 4ish) etc etc, so like, i can't be "MAD", but uh, i still feel mad.  

We've gotten better at quickies so we don't have to wait til the weekend at least (that was killing us both) but still, it's just not as much as i need  

If you don't get satisfied by that person then that would make you not want to IMO

Just not that into it. It's kinda up there with playing battle ship, doing dishes or watching full house reruns. At some given point I may want or need to do some of those things but not today, my friend. Not today.

I just have a low sex drive. I don't want to be touched. It's boring, feels like my "marital chore". Idk, I've never been a big fan, I just do it cuz you're supposed too.

Beats me, I swear my sex drive is always going unless I'm very sick.

Quoting Cass Hole:" If I don't want to have sex its either because I am mad at him or tired. But sometimes I just don't want to, not for any particular reason just not in the mood."

I've never experienced that  
And i'm really weird, haha, if i'm mad at him, i do the opposite- like, i better be having sex if i'm mad at him, cos at least i'm getting SOMETHING from the long day of anger. my friend's think it's the weirdest thing ever, and i can actually agree  

Quoting KNZ.:" I know, all these sex questions on the boards right now. I've asked about this in threads before, but ... [snip!] ... how do you go to bed with your partner, not having sex, or even thinking of having it? I would kill for a lower sex drive."

I go to bed alone while he stays up late playing videos and watching porn. He ruined my sex drive- Our relationship suffers because we don't have sex.

The only time I don't is if AF is in town except the last day or so, or if my nose is stuffed up. I can't give oral and breath through my mouth. I have a high sex drive I guess. SO is the one who says no, lol. He is either tired, hurting from work, or just not feeling it.