re: Reasons you DON'T want to have SEX.

Quoting KNZ.:" hahaha, oh god, i read that as "big bowl o' wiener". and no one wants that   "

Not that either. Ha ha.

im 34 weeks pregnant so the only time i want the hubby to t ouch me now is when he is rubbing my back lol i find it hard to want to have sex now which makes me feel bad cause i know its leaving out an emotional connection we had. my belly just gets in the way and honestly ive never (quiefed) if thats even spelled right lol so when he offers all 4s i turn him down cause im scared i will in that position! any advice?!?!  

Quoting MAMA Kay+1.5:" I go to bed alone while he stays up late playing videos and watching porn. He ruined my sex drive- Our relationship suffers because we don't have sex."

I hear ya sweetie. My hubby and I do not go to bed together. He plays his video games and just zones me out. We hardly spend time together. SO how can u have sex when the other parts of the relationship is suffering?? It just feels awkward if u ask me. I want attention but ill be damn if i have to beg for it. Im married which is another factor. You just cant get a divorce. Its not me. Plus we have kids. I guess if we have to we will coexist and be like roomates. I dont want a broken family. So im stuck for another 18 yrs because we just had a baby. I pray one day things will change but i doubt it. I tell him how i feel and he will spend time with me for like a day or so but then its back to his old habits. Bout ready to throw his PS3 out the smurfing windo!!

Quoting Mellissa28:" I hear ya sweetie. My hubby and I do not go to bed together. He plays his video games and just zones ... [snip!] ... time with me for like a day or so but then its back to his old habits. Bout ready to throw his PS3 out the smurfing windo!!"

id def be irritated with that!!!!! :/

Quoting *Jackie O*:" If you don't get satisfied by that person then that would make you not want to IMO"

This mostly.

Also, we don't go to bed at the same time... and I'm awful when it comes to sleep. If he wakes me up, I can't ever go back to sleep.

Quoting aronaldridge:" id def be irritated with that!!!!! :/"

Oh you dont even know..... Im so smurfing pist at him. I said if u put as much time and effort that u do into ur game into our relationship it would be perfect. I cant remember the last time we went to bed together. Thats what really makes me mad. Were so distant it sucks. I just feel like he doent want me or isnt attracted to me anymore... Its not like im fat. Im 120lbs yes i have some toning up to do since baby. I just dont know what to do anymore.

Cuz I'm dead? Lol really unless sick or AF I'm game  

I guess I just don't feel turned on very often. Like, I just don't feel like I want to have sex, lol. I do it like 3-5 times a month.

id rather sit on BG than get some..

well.. J lasts a VERY long time.. and its not that i get bored, i get SORE very easily. so after 15 min, im DONE.   So i avoid it all together

I just don't want to.   Either I'm just not in the mood, I feel ugly, or I'm too tired. I think my birth control kills my sex drive.

Quoting KNZ.:" Watching porn? Someone would die if they chose watching porn over our sex life."

/Yup. He is an addict IMO. Pisses me off but I would rather him jack off then lose him. I'm 6 months pregnant and 'not sexy' anymore.

Quoting Mellissa28:" I hear ya sweetie. My hubby and I do not go to bed together. He plays his video games and just zones ... [snip!] ... time with me for like a day or so but then its back to his old habits. Bout ready to throw his PS3 out the smurfing windo!!"

Mine plays Xbox! So annoying. We kinda co-exist too. If he put forth some effort to make me happy I would work harder to make him happy! We co-exist too. I love him to death, but his habits annoy me. lol

AF isn't even an excuse with us..  

I have a high sex drive but I didn't want sex with Michael towards the end because my emotional needs weren't being met.

Quoting Dr. Paradigm Shift:" I'm like, ok, well, thanks, that was great-now--back to what I was doing. I think another thing for ... [snip!] ... or planning. Plus it makes me feel sort of silly about sex. Like, the last thing I want is a big ol weiner anywhere near me. "

Hahaha,  

DH and I used to smoke pot a lot, and I would NEVER be in the mood. He always would be.

I'd be like wtf... are you trying to kill my buzz?