re: Reasons you DON'T want to have SEX.

Quoting KNZ.:" seriously. i'm like, sitting here, fuming mad that we aren't having sex right now, hahah. but, my daughter's ... [snip!] ... so we don't have to wait til the weekend at least (that was killing us both) but still, it's just not as much as i need   "

Same, I still sit there and get mad even though I know I can't be mad at him, Sometimes I wake him up with a BJ  

Quoting KNZ.:" I've never experienced that   And i'm really weird, haha, if i'm mad at him, i do the opposite- ... [snip!] ... i'm getting SOMETHING from the long day of anger. my friend's think it's the weirdest thing ever, and i can actually agree  "

Angry sex is one of the BEST, I expect it after an argument lmao

Quoting MAMA Kay+1.5:" I go to bed alone while he stays up late playing videos and watching porn. He ruined my sex drive- Our relationship suffers because we don't have sex."

Rather watch porn than have sex........ I would kill SO

I used to want it all day everyday too, and then i met SO... lol. We used to have sex everyday but probably once.. He doesn't have a high sex drive at allllll. It used to piss me off and irritate me, but now I don't really care. I usually only want it a few times a week now and it works for both of us! lol I think having a child greatly reduced my drive. She tires me out sooo much that by the end of the day all i want to do is sleep lol

Quoting Cattails:" The only time I don't is if AF is in town except the last day or so, or if my nose is stuffed up. I can't ... [snip!] ... I have a high sex drive I guess. SO is the one who says no, lol. He is either tired, hurting from work, or just not feeling it."

haha i know what you mean, i hate when you're all stuffed up but trying to do stuff  
i've gotta be REALLY sick to do nothing.

we just started takling..
and I'm desperately trying to keep in my pants.
but he looks ike the guy in my avi
charles kelly
so I wanna rip his clothes off when hes aruond me.

Maybe...if I was like...dying?  

My sex drive is high but sex right now is excruciating. I'm BF so my hormones are out of whack and I'm not the type who enjoys an hour of foreplay. I like quickies but unfortunately my body won't cooperate.  

Quoting Vivian [♥]:" I just have a low sex drive. I don't want to be touched. It's boring, feels like my "marital chore". Idk, I've never been a big fan, I just do it cuz you're supposed too."

but...but...you're crazy hot.

Quoting Mayhem.:" Maybe...if I was like...dying?  "

     

Quoting Curlyheadedfck:" we just started takling.. and I'm desperately trying to keep in my pants. but he looks ike the guy in my avi charles kelly so I wanna rip his clothes off when hes aruond me."

hahahh i say do what ya gotta do  

Quoting KNZ.:" I know, all these sex questions on the boards right now. I've asked about this in threads before, but ... [snip!] ... how do you go to bed with your partner, not having sex, or even thinking of having it? I would kill for a lower sex drive."

Well when my sex drive was low we were lucky to have sex once everyother week. IDK why I didn't want it I just didn't. thank god it's back though lol

My DH and I both have lower sex drives now that we have kids. I am a boring old lady.....I try to be in bed by 9pm at the latest. My DH usually stays up until 10:30. Once a week is good for us. Honestly the thought of sex everyday sounds like a chore to me.

SO is a carpenter, works an hour away so it's a long day for him. Not too long after LO goes to bed, he passes out on the couch. When he isn't working, he wants to ALL of the time........ so sleep/work gets in the way for sure.

Like someone else said, it sometimes feels like a chore to me as well. I was molested when I was little though, so that may be why. I have had a lower sex drive since I got the mirena too. I also find it hard to get turned on because I know within 2 seconds of sex it's "too good" for SO. I guess it's a pro/con of being super flexible ahahaha

Quoting MAMA Kay+1.5:" I go to bed alone while he stays up late playing videos and watching porn. He ruined my sex drive- Our relationship suffers because we don't have sex."

Watching porn? Someone would die if they chose watching porn over our sex life.