Dick size question

Ok, a little background. I have known this guy for a few years and we have been good friends. I started seeing him in a new light about a year ago and found the feeling was mutual. We've been taking it slow and just started dating a few months ago. I am seriously head over heels for this guy. He seems perfect for me in every way but one...we recently had sex for the first time and I was DISMAYED by the size of his penis. It is certainly not the smallest I've seen, but it is close. I was not satisfied sexually by it, though he was a caring and considerate lover otherwise. In every other way, this guy makes me happy. So, I guess my question is this...is it still possible to make this work?

I know this may sound shallow, but I feel sexual compatibility is important in establishing a long term relationship and I don't know if I could be satisfied in that way with what he's got. Any help from those who have been there (or are there)?

I think sexual compatibility is EXTREMELY important to me at least...

I totally agree and wish u luck in making ur decision

I would give it a shot. Be honest about it, talk to him about it, and see what he said.

IMO it's important. I love sex and want to feel satisfied afterwards.

Quoting Mama Rogers:" Ok, a little background. I have known this guy for a few years and we have been good friends. I started ... [snip!] ... I don't know if I could be satisfied in that way with what he's got. Any help from those who have been there (or are there)?"

depends on how important it is to you. my husband is amazing, hes my best friend, love of my life, and the sweetest, most caring man in the world...but...sex life, eh, its not hot by any means. but neither of us are very sexual ppl so it doesnt really bother us. we are still intimate (i have a 16 month old, and am going on my 9th month of pregnancy, lol) but, nothing i gotta have. doesnt change my love for him though.

I feel it's very important so I would try a few more times and if a no go then bye  

Quoting Mama Rogers:" Ok, a little background. I have known this guy for a few years and we have been good friends. I started ... [snip!] ... I don't know if I could be satisfied in that way with what he's got. Any help from those who have been there (or are there)?"

I would start googling good positions for small penises honestly. I am positive there is something you can find that will work for you despite his size.

I have a hard time with this topic. I feel bad because every time I've ever met a guy with a penis that was smaller than my thumb I couldn't help but giggle. Not because of it being a bad thing but idk they always made me giggle lol. So honestly, as long as they know how to work it, there's no matter the size as long as you can take it seriously cuz I sure as hell couldn't lol

Ugh, this is a hard one.

I can see how it would be important on all levels, but I also feel like the poor man can't help what god gave him. I mean, it's sad if the man couldn't have a successful relationship because of it.

I would suggest maybe talking to him about it (gently) and just be honest with him about the things you do and do not like, or certain positions that might work best.

Sex is probably the 2nd most important thing in a relationship IMO. If you aren't satisfied then I'd call it quits  

Quoting Alyssa ♥'s Vincent:" I have a hard time with this topic. I feel bad because every time I've ever met a guy with a penis that ... [snip!] ... as they know how to work it, there's no matter the size as long as you can take it seriously cuz I sure as hell couldn't lol"

Smaller than your thumb? Every time? Are they so common that you've come across more than one man like that? ...I must be a lucky person in that department.

<blockquote><b>Quoting Chim Richalds:</b>" Smaller than your thumb? Every time? Are they so common that you've come across more than one man like that? ...I must be a lucky person in that department."</blockquote>




No no no lol. I've come across a few but more than I have ever hoped for lol!

I don't personally find it really important because I'm not a very sexual person, but I do understand it being an important issue. There are plenty of positions that can be more satisfying with a smaller guy. The first guy I ever seriously dated was smaller than average and we had some pretty great sex, so it can be done. I don't know that I would say anything to him, though. If you hurt his feelings with something like that he may not ever get over it. You could look up some positions online and then just suggest you try them the next time you have sex.

Quoting Faith1LovesMLP:" I would give it a shot. Be honest about it, talk to him about it, and see what he said."

I think being honest is important, but I don't think you should admit the reason you don't want to be with him is his size.   Talk about letting a guy down and then all he is going to do is worry about it every time he meets someone new. Plus how could you still be friends with him after that devastating news to him.