Quoting Mama Rogers:" Ok, a little background. I have known this guy for a few years and we have been good friends. I started ... [snip!] ... I don't know if I could be satisfied in that way with what he's got. Any help from those who have been there (or are there)?"
depends on how important it is to you. my husband is amazing, hes my best friend, love of my life, and the sweetest, most caring man in the world...but...sex life, eh, its not hot by any means. but neither of us are very sexual ppl so it doesnt really bother us. we are still intimate (i have a 16 month old, and am going on my 9th month of pregnancy, lol) but, nothing i gotta have. doesnt change my love for him though.