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Idk, maybe 2-3 times a week.

i think once every 2 weeks at a minimum depending on the people.

Quoting Vanilla MILFshake.:" On a scale from 1-10, how important is sex in a marriage? Also, on average, how often do you think ... [snip!] ... but like, to me I don't think it would be normal for a healthy married couple to not have sex for a month or so for no reason."

We have sex 2-3 times a week.

ETA- There are months where we don't have sex. We're either too busy or just don't want it.

It used to be like 3x a day cause we were horn dogs, now we are lucky if we get it once a week, kids are instant birth control ; )

The two ladies that have sex 2-3 times a week...how long have you been with your SO/DH?

I believe 3-4 times a week is healthy. My sex drive has gone to smurf lately and it sucks! I feel like its important though.

Btw your Avi cracks me up! I love it 

Quoting Vanilla MILFshake.:" The two ladies that have sex 2-3 times a week...how long have you been with your SO/DH?"

9 years in March.
We used to have sex sometimes twice a day... but we're not 16 anymore.

When no af we are evvery other night folks. AT LEAST every few days (so usually no less than twice a week) . We've been together for 3.5 years and have 3 kids.

I feel it is very important I have a good friend whose husband wasn't satisfying her and she ended up finding another guy (affair) and falling I. Love within and actually started the divorce process she said she didn't like sex all that much to begin with and that there was more to it then just sex but the sex being bad just pushed it over

We normally do it about 3-4 times a week. If we go more than 2 days in a row my husband acts like it's awful   He will ask for it every day though haah.

3-4 times a week I would guess is healthy

We like to have sex at least once a day though. For us its extremely important, its a great way for us to release stress, to connect on a different level so I rated it an 8

I voted 9. Only cos i don't want to say it's the "most important" of EVERYTHING, but it is one of the most important things (to me). So in my head, i'm really voting a 10.

I used to think every day/night was normal, but now i guess i could see a few times a week as being normal. *"normal" sorry if that term offends anyone.

If a month passed and no sex was had, for no reason, that would be a huge problem for me.

I get frustrated that we can only do it a few times a week, due to schedules.
We are far from a 'new' relationship.

I voted 9 it's not the MOST important but it's IMPORTANT!!

At least 4 times a week, It used to be everyday but now it's atleast 4 times a week or more.. I could NEVER go a month with out sex!!

Quoting ♡Sarah♡ + 2:" 3-4 times a week I would guess is healthy We like to have sex at least once a day though. For us its ... [snip!] ... For us its extremely important, its a great way for us to release stress, to connect on a different level so I rated it an 8"

That's me too, i need it for that.
And i agree, with busy days, and kids all day/every day, it's the only like, adult/emotional-physical connection we have during the week. ha, if that makes sense, since we don't have like, "date nights", we have sex.