Quoting Ryloonjimama:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Vanilla MILFshake.:</b>" We're lucky if we have sex once a ... [snip!] ... gets to certain points like that in their relationships & it's horrible to feel out of control and not know where you stand."
Well, it's been forever since he's even showed affection towards me and it kind of hurts my feelings. Especially the times I have tried to initiate things and he basically turns me down. It has been going on for quite some time and it has really lowered my self esteem a lot. We've talked about things a million times and he says he understands where I'm coming from and things will change, but I have yet to see even the smallest change from him. We've been married 2.5 years...together almost 5.