<blockquote><b>Quoting Vanilla MILFshake.:</b>" I do agree with that. It's just like DH makes it seem like it's a chore or something and that's with ... [snip!] ... to 2-3 times a week...every other week....and now here we are.   We've been together almost 5 years, married for 2.5 years."</blockquote>


Sometimes I honestly feel like it's a chore because I'm that exhausted and I'm not into it, my sex drive is low but I want to make my SO happy at the same time. It's really hard. Our lack of sex doesn't mean I love him any less. Quite the opposite actually, we're in the best place we've been for a while now.

How old is your DH?

Quoting Ryloonjimama:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Vanilla MILFshake.:</b>" We're lucky if we have sex once a ... [snip!] ... gets to certain points like that in their relationships & it's horrible to feel out of control and not know where you stand."

Well, it's been forever since he's even showed affection towards me and it kind of hurts my feelings. Especially the times I have tried to initiate things and he basically turns me down. It has been going on for quite some time and it has really lowered my self esteem a lot. We've talked about things a million times and he says he understands where I'm coming from and things will change, but I have yet to see even the smallest change from him. We've been married 2.5 years...together almost 5.

Quoting Ryloonjimama:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Vanilla MILFshake.:</b>" I do agree with that. It's just like ... [snip!] ... mean I love him any less. Quite the opposite actually, we're in the best place we've been for a while now. How old is your DH?"

23.

Quoting Vanilla MILFshake.:" I do agree with that. It's just like DH makes it seem like it's a chore or something and that's with ... [snip!] ... to 2-3 times a week...every other week....and now here we are.   We've been together almost 5 years, married for 2.5 years."

Mine's not very sexually driven. He'd rather snuggle in bed and play a game together before we go to sleep than get it on. And mostly I'm cool with that.