Quoting I'm His Amy He's My Rory:" It's important, maybe 5-6, but definitely not the most important. We are okay with like 2 times a month ... [snip!] ... I want it more and I get bummed but I'm not that upset. I love my husband for A LOT more than his penis. That's an added bonus!"
I do agree with that. It's just like DH makes it seem like it's a chore or something and that's with us doing it once a month. I don't think it's the most important thing, but I feel like I think it is more important than DH does. When we first got together, we had sex at least once a day. Then it went to 2-3 times a week...every other week....and now here we are.
We've been together almost 5 years, married for 2.5 years.