re: dear AF

Quoting ❥New Beginnings:" <blockquote><b>Quoting *hiyalindz* [EBFB]*:</b>" i was crampy too!!! and im like ... [snip!] ... It's just easier to talk myself out of the idea than it is to think maybe I am and be let down lol"

definitely understandable but you can be cautiously optimistic!!!

Quoting *hiyalindz* [EBFB]*:" you ma have just jinxed yourself on needing those tampons....i went out and bought some too right ... [snip!] ... and im like better get them now... i have a whole box unopened that will remain there...for another 2 yrs probably ..lol"

im one of the few unfortunate people who get AF 6 weeks after giving birth while EBFING.  

<blockquote><b>Quoting *hiyalindz* [EBFB]*:</b>" thats what i was thinking too!!! she still never came!! can you check your cervix.? i noticed ... [snip!] ... was high firm but smooth...and closed... i was waiting for it to transition to slightly open and low...never did.. "</blockquote>




Idk how to do that?

Quoting *hiyalindz* [EBFB]*:" thats what i was thinking too!!! she still never came!! can you check your cervix.? i noticed ... [snip!] ... was high firm but smooth...and closed... i was waiting for it to transition to slightly open and low...never did.. "

how do you check that high low?

i never understood

Quoting Maebaby2012:" im one of the few unfortunate people who get AF 6 weeks after giving birth while EBFING.  "

really!!!!!!!!! seriously! wow your af is a bitch!!
with my 1st i was 9m pp
2nd i was 9 m pp
3 i was 15m pp
4th 10m pp
all EBF
i loved not having a period!! seriously i hate AF soooooooo bad! maybe thats why my body gets pregnant all the time...vs my mind..lol

but i hope for you , you are pregnant!!! fingers crossed and baby dust...im gonna stay optimistic because given my situation...anything can happen!

Quoting ❥New Beginnings:" <blockquote><b>Quoting *hiyalindz* [EBFB]*:</b>" thats what i was thinking too!!! ... [snip!] ... i was waiting for it to transition to slightly open and low...never did.. "</blockquote> Idk how to do that?"

i use my middle finger on my dominant hand and reach up...once you hit what feels like a finger kinda ..thats your cervix...it has an opening on the end called an os...after children i noticed mine is more open...like a pinky tip open and during my period it had been middle finger tip open..

so just feel up there..and if it is firm like your nose...it could indicate pregnancy...or it could also be soft like your lips...but it is usually high closed and smooth...

hope that helps a little

Quoting Maebaby2012:" how do you check that high low? i never understood"

my low is i insert my middle finger and i dont have to reach way up to hit my cervix..my high is reaching way up there like i need to put my arm in my vag...

after my period ended...i never noticed my cervix being open so i figured i never ovulated it stayed high and closed...went from firm and smooth to some days being soft and smooth..firm as in like the tip of my nose and soft like my lips..

i did also notice a very small amount of white discharge that was sometimes mucousy but i knew it wasnt ovulating since the cervix was closed...

you think me doing all this i could prevent a pregnancy ..i still have yet to master that!

Quoting *hiyalindz* [EBFB]*:" my low is i insert my middle finger and i dont have to reach way up to hit my cervix..my high is reaching ... [snip!] ... since the cervix was closed... you think me doing all this i could prevent a pregnancy ..i still have yet to master that!"

maybe TMI but i cant reach anything lol sorry i have never checked before so idk whats nomal for me.

<blockquote><b>Quoting *hiyalindz* [EBFB]*:</b>" my low is i insert my middle finger and i dont have to reach way up to hit my cervix..my high is reaching ... [snip!] ... since the cervix was closed... you think me doing all this i could prevent a pregnancy ..i still have yet to master that!"</blockquote>



I've got a slight white mucousy discharge and it feels like something is scratching me with is nail inside kinda like when I was further along in my pregnancy withdd

It's weird but I almost always have some sort of discharge with af too do it's hard to tell

Quoting Maebaby2012:" maybe TMI but i cant reach anything lol sorry i have never checked before so idk whats nomal for me."

generally most women follow this guideline
before af..you will be at a medium height
then af comes and your cervix will be low hard and maybe slightly open ive always noticed it opening..
your vaginal wettness will vary..after af you will have some then leading up to O day you will be very wet the EWCM then after O you are more dry until af again..
but your cervix will be high during ovulation and open
after it is medium to high
and during af low and slightly open..

does that make sense..i think i jumped around lol

but if you are having troubles reaching that could be a good sign...do you remember with your 1st baby when or if you had cervical checks the dr would reach way up there? it was because your cervix gets short and high..making it hard to reach!!!

Quoting ❥New Beginnings:" <blockquote><b>Quoting *hiyalindz* [EBFB]*:</b>" my low is i insert my middle finger ... [snip!] ... along in my pregnancy withdd It's weird but I almost always have some sort of discharge with af too do it's hard to tell"

the white mucousy discharge is what kinda threw me off...i do have discharge before af comes...well that i have noticed..but it is thinner and not as white..
this stuff was white and mucousy!!

so that could be a good sign...i do remember with all of my pregnancies ive had white discharge from the beginning.

Quoting ❥New Beginnings:" <blockquote><b>Quoting *hiyalindz* [EBFB]*:</b>" my low is i insert my middle finger ... [snip!] ... along in my pregnancy withdd It's weird but I almost always have some sort of discharge with af too do it's hard to tell"

i had brown discharge while wiping 2 times and now its just clear and alot

omg you guys! Is this a spell we are all going through or WTF! I am on the same boat! Except that I tested twice last week and it was BFN. AF is ove due about a week. I had the brown spotting on Sun Nov 25 and it was there for about 4 days then it was gone. I am now wondering if that WAS AF!?!?! I've never had brown discharge (except right at the end of my period).
Freaking AF, if you are gonna get here just get here already!!!!  

Quoting Bivi Pulido Nystrom:" omg you guys! Is this a spell we are all going through or WTF! I am on the same boat! Except that I tested ... [snip!] ... brown discharge (except right at the end of my period). Freaking AF, if you are gonna get here just get here already!!!!  "

lol ikr good luck!!!

Quoting Maebaby2012:" i had brown discharge while wiping 2 times and now its just clear and alot"

i had that same brown discharge a few weeks ago..it was a week or so before my af was supposed to come...then i started getting the white mucousy stuff..at one point or 2 it was watery ..i thought i had got my period..