re: Please dont judge me (Long)

I know it is hard not to judge me and i feel like i have a real problem because if i sit and think about it, it does look like i was getting pregnant just to do that. I do have a job though, i work at a grocery store. I have always had a job.

Also, you can always PM me if you feel like you need to talk to someone. No judgement here!  

Thank you everyone for your responses.

Quoting JoyeandOnlyJoye:" I know it is hard not to judge me and i feel like i have a real problem because if i sit and think about ... [snip!] ... look like i was getting pregnant just to do that. I do have a job though, i work at a grocery store. I have always had a job."

I don't think a child will be the answers to your problems..your boyfriend needs help, no man should beat on a woman. You need help. Abortions shouldn't be your answer to finding out you're pregnant....when finding out you're pregnant it should be a happy time...if I were in your shoes I'd probably get another abortion and look into a therapist that could help you with your emotional problems.

I know i need to use protection and I was being stupid. I dont know how to be by myself and i really dont wanna be by myself. Im an only child and ive been lonely for quite some time now. That being said, getting pregnant will not fix my loneliness and i need to learn how to cope. I just dont know how.

Quoting JoyeandOnlyJoye:" I know i need to use protection and I was being stupid. I dont know how to be by myself and i really ... [snip!] ... time now. That being said, getting pregnant will not fix my loneliness and i need to learn how to cope. I just dont know how. "

go talk to a therapist..


you need to become independant. can you support yourself and get your own place? get government assitance and go to school? its not impossible. you can take a 6 month course to become a medical assisant and then make like 12 bucks an hour. my friend did that and was a single mom for a few moths ( well she was pregnant still) and then the father came around and now they are married with 3 kids and TTC their fourth!
needless to say, you need some help. you should really talk to a professional

I will definitely look into seeing a therapist. Thank you guys.

Hey Joye. I'm glad to hear from you again. We have talked for so long. I knew this post was coming. I am so sorry you are still with this guy. You need to abort. You do not need any more reasons to be connected to him. You are in a place right now where you need to work on yourself and getting out of this horrible situation. I think about you all the time. I really hope you can finally be rid of him. *hugs!*

Quoting Mumz:" This!!!! geez"

I disagree highly.

Quoting Devil's Advocate:" I disagree highly."

well, you know more about her situation than anyone else here, so please help her now that you saw this post. I know you will, I'm glad she has a friend here, or anywhere for that matter, to help her and understand her.

God luck OP!

Quoting Natural Goddess Mommy:" well, you know more about her situation than anyone else here, so please help her now that you saw this ... [snip!] ... I know you will, I'm glad she has a friend here, or anywhere for that matter, to help her and understand her. God luck OP!"

I am PMing her  

OP Im sorry you are going through this, but get on some birth control.