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D E L E T E D

I've been with my SO for 4 years and I have never done any of that for him except making dinner and breakfast. I don't work either since I'm a SAHM, but I'm not going to treat him like a child and clean up after his ass all the time. He's an adult, he can act like one.

Quoting Sweetheart...*:" I've been with my SO for 4 years and I have never done any of that for him except making dinner and breakfast. ... [snip!] ... SAHM, but I'm not going to treat him like a child and clean up after his ass all the time. He's an adult, he can act like one."

He doesn't though. He's such a messy guy and I hate messes! He always talks about helping me but rarely does it. Don't get me wrong, he's not an ass about things, I just think that he's starting to appreciate everything less and less but I don't know how to stop doing it all since it's become such a routine ya know?

so stop doing it!! plain and simple!   he has two feet and hands!!

Well I would just let him know that it's getting harder for you the more pregnant you become, and that once your baby is born you won't be able to do so much for him so he should start helping you out now.

Quoting Sweetheart...*:" Well I would just let him know that it's getting harder for you the more pregnant you become, and that ... [snip!] ... you become, and that once your baby is born you won't be able to do so much for him so he should start helping you out now."

I really hope he doesn't expect all that smurf when Emma is born. lol

Quoting Erica ☆★:" Okay, I think my boyfriend is getting a little spoiled. Each morning we wake up, I go make his coffee ... [snip!] ... supposed to or if it's too much or what. I feel like his house bitch and I never want to be that, ever. What do you think? "

I'm pregnant aswell (27 weeks) and I have a 3 year old son. I do all the cooking and all the cleaning and pretty much everything. My husband works hard so I don't expect it of him.
Saying that, I know he appreciates it.. and I know if I needed help and did ask for help he would help me.
Also I might not expect him to clean or any of that, but I do expect him to spend family time with myself and my son when he's home and not just play video games or whatever.