re: Told dh about the pregnancy

Quoting Chelsea Dawns Mama:" Meh, its upsetting, but he WAS distracted. You chose a bad time to drop the news. "

yep,i agree.

Quoting Lovelyyy KD*:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Chelsea Dawns Mama:</b>" Meh, its upsetting, but he WAS distracted. ... [snip!] ... the news. "</blockquote> You're kidding, right? He was playing video games, they have pause buttons for a reason."

I'm saying!!

<blockquote><b>Quoting Chelsea Dawns Mama:</b>" Meh, its upsetting, but he WAS distracted. You chose a bad time to drop the news. "</blockquote>




This, not to mention dropping something like that while you are "fighting" isn't the best time. Chances are he's still pissed, so I would have waited for him to cool off. He'll get excited, it just wasn't the right timing dear.

Quoting Lovelyyy KD*:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Chelsea Dawns Mama:</b>" Meh, its upsetting, but he WAS distracted. ... [snip!] ... the news. "</blockquote> You're kidding, right? He was playing video games, they have pause buttons for a reason."

Seriously! I think having a baby is a LITTLE more important than a game. My SO is a huge gamer and he would not get away with acting like that with me.

Quoting Lovelyyy KD*:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Chelsea Dawns Mama:</b>" Meh, its upsetting, but he WAS distracted. ... [snip!] ... the news. "</blockquote> You're kidding, right? He was playing video games, they have pause buttons for a reason."

Its also called waiting till he isn't distracted to share news. Guys don't react the same as women anyways. It was a bad time period.

<blockquote><b>Quoting Melxx:</b>" I'm saying!!"</blockquote>




I'm surprise so many women are agreeing with her. "/ it's a smurfing game. There is zero importance placed on playing a game and a game is no excuse to ignore her. Ridiculous

It was in between matches. He took his head set off opened the box when what's that mean and I went its a positive pregnancy test and then he said when did you find out and I said Sunday night and he went oh. It is what it is and went back to modern warfare or whatever game he's playing  

<blockquote><b>Quoting Chelsea Dawns Mama:</b>" Its also called waiting till he isn't distracted to share news. Guys don't react the same as women anyways. It was a bad time period."</blockquote>


Sorry but no matter how you look at it she should always trump a damn game. The fact that he's a man is no excuse. "/

Quoting Lovelyyy KD*:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Melxx:</b>" I'm saying!!"</blockquote> I'm surprise ... [snip!] ... "/ it's a smurfing game. There is zero importance placed on playing a game and a game is no excuse to ignore her. Ridiculous"

I guess those men really get to enjoy their video games. Good for them.  

When I told my fiance that I was pregnant, I went to his work and gave him a little baby bootie. He was so excited. And he even said that when she arrives that he will take care of her even while playing a game if I am resting.

Quoting IDID-VBAC 12/09:" That sucks   but you chose a really bad time to tell him. Men that are playing games do not focus on anything else. "

lol true we were putting or xmas tree up last night and he was playing the entire time some stupid game called black ops they are all the same to me killing, shooting, bla lol needless to say i did it all myself

Quoting Lovelyyy KD*:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Melxx:</b>" I'm saying!!"</blockquote> I'm surprise ... [snip!] ... "/ it's a smurfing game. There is zero importance placed on playing a game and a game is no excuse to ignore her. Ridiculous"

lol well you can't pause all games. like if your online. And she said she handed him a box, not said " I'm pregnant!"

<blockquote><b>Quoting Mama Karma [3 weeks]:</b>" It was in between matches. He took his head set off opened the box when what's that mean and I went its ... [snip!] ... out and I said Sunday night and he went oh. It is what it is and went back to modern warfare or whatever game he's playing  "</blockquote>




//hugs\\ I'm sorry, momma. "/

Quoting Lovelyyy KD*:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Chelsea Dawns Mama:</b>" Meh, its upsetting, but he WAS distracted. ... [snip!] ... the news. "</blockquote> You're kidding, right? He was playing video games, they have pause buttons for a reason."

You are obviously not a gamer.

If they were fighting,which she says they were. That is a terrible time to break the news.