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I think dealing with abortion at any time makes it harder to deal. I think in time you wont feel as much sting in it anymore.

Its been 3 and a half years for me, and I feel the sting of the hurt around the time that I got it done and then when she would have been born.

It's been almost 7 years for me and it still bothers me a bit. It gets easierover the years but at first its ruff dealing with it.

I cant see it ever getting better. My best friend had one almost a year ago and talks about regretting it everyday. It is heartbreaking to see her go through it.

Quoting IDID-VBAC 12/09:" I cant see it ever getting better. My best friend had one almost a year ago and talks about regretting it everyday. It is heartbreaking to see her go through it."

thanks...i guess.

Quoting Justine's Mama:" It's been almost 7 years for me and it still bothers me a bit. It gets easierover the years but at first its ruff dealing with it."

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Quoting Yurvette [♥]:" I think dealing with abortion at any time makes it harder to deal. I think in time you wont feel as much ... [snip!] ... half years for me, and I feel the sting of the hurt around the time that I got it done and then when she would have been born. "

yeah, i know it will always hurt at certain times...but sometimes it seems unbearable now  

I would've been 33 or 34 weeks tomorrow. Still not any easier :-( pm me if you wanna talk love <3

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It's hasn't been long for you, you are going to still be hurting a lot. I was a mess for the first year I would say. After that it slowly got easier on me. I would still feel weird when I thought about it but it didn't hurt as bad. Eventually it won't be as hard on you as it is now. But some people it affects more then others. Once I stopped being so closed asbout it I started to deal with it better.I honestly think if you could talk to someone it would help you. Once I was able to tell someone how much it botherede and how I felt it seemed eventually that it was a bit easier to deal with when I thought of it or was reminded of it. It's a hard thing to go through and deal with emotionally,I know trust me. I hope it gets easier for you, if you need to vent or talk to someone I'm here for ya. I know how you feel.

My due date from my first abortion is coming up on the 2nd of January, I'll let you know then how difficult that day turns out to be and whether or not I feel it's easier after that date is over or if it's harder... Of course I've had another abortion since then though so I don't know, I won't get closure from both of them until the 1st of July.

I have had miscarriages in the past, and I found that by the time the due dates came up I wasn't suffering anymore, and I didn't find it difficult.

But personally I find abortion infinately more difficult emotionally than miscarriage, so I'm not expecting to deal with the due dates as well as I did the miscarriage ones x

Quoting pixie b:" My due date from my first abortion is coming up on the 2nd of January, I'll let you know then how difficult ... [snip!] ... difficult emotionally than miscarriage, so I'm not expecting to deal with the due dates as well as I did the miscarriage ones x"

yeah, ive had 2 miscarriages as well and while it was sad a the time, it was NOTHING like this, i dont even really think about them, unless a dr asks how many times ive been preg, but this abortion has really taken a toll on me...   its so hard to think about the light at the end of the tunnel...

Quoting Ry's Mom ♥:" I would've been 33 or 34 weeks tomorrow. Still not any easier :-( pm me if you wanna talk love <3"

thanks hunni