Would it bother you?

If one of your boyfriend's ex-girlfrends called, and then hung up when you answered?
What if your boyfriend had a history of doing things that made you uncomfortable, that involved this woman, such as phone calls between 1-3 am, and flirty/borderline sexual texts?
I want an outsider's opinion, I'm trying to be logical and not overreact.
ETA: Post and run, I have to cook dinner.

I'd be suspicious and do some detective work. lol

<blockquote><b>Quoting ℳary ℐane:</b>" I'd be suspicious and do some detective work. lol"</blockquote>



This! Im in the same boat hum, PM me if u wanna talk

I'd definitely be suspicious...

I would def ask him why she is calling. I'm not a jealous person and I wouldn't put up with that.

Yes, it would bother me. I'd find it very disrespectful.

I would have dumped at the first sight of borderline sexting and 1-3am phone calls. That smurf isn't exceptable in my book. So I wouldn't even be around long enough for her to hang up on.

I would ask my boyfriend about it.

I'd call her back and ask what's up.

If youre suspicious then something isnt right...follow your instinct but dont go searching for evidence that just makes it worse IMO either talk it out with him or leave and dont look back

My fiance talks to exes all the time, and so do I, because we are secure in our relationship and are in love and are not with those people for a reason.

HOWEVER

I'd be suspicious of this one. Why are they hiding (hanging up when it's you who answers)? Sexting is NOT okay.

I guess the difference is, if they can't be open and up front about their friendship, it seems like something sneaky is going on..

I would not take that he has no reason to be talking to her and the texts and hanging up on you is way over the acceptable line. Good luck girl.

Quoting lilredsmurfy:" My fiance talks to exes all the time, and so do I, because we are secure in our relationship and are ... [snip!] ... the difference is, if they can't be open and up front about their friendship, it seems like something sneaky is going on.."

I 100% agree with this!

I would have called her back. If whatever they're doing/have done makes you uncomfortable, then it shouldn't be going on at all. She doesn't need to call him at all and the same for him.

I would be suspicious as well.. Ex's are ex's for a reason. Casually speaking when running into them is one thing but late night calls and texts are not right.. I would flat out tell your bf how disrespectful he is being to you and your relationship. I would also call the ex and tell her the same. GL!