Quoting Kelly13086:" My sister is like my best friend and i don't even know what i did for those comments ive always done ... [snip!] ... or self centered the only thing i talk about is my son... Im scared to say something cuz i dont want to start a big fight.."
You don't need to start a fight. Just say, "I wanted to talk to you about, when you were here on Thanksgiving, you left your messages up. I don't want to fight about this, I was just really hurt by what I saw because I thought we were close and I really care about what you think. Is there something that I have done to make you feel that way?" etc. etc. Just spin it back onto her to make her feel like a POS. lol.