he doesnt get it

Soooo im 24 1/2 weeks and my whole pregnancy ive had little to no ex drive.... im just sooo tired and have no energy but my bf gets so pissy every time he wants laid and i tell him no.. hes always trying to get some and im never in the mood.... he tells to endulge him and just do it to make him happy..

How do i get him to understand that its just not there for me...

Quoting Chelsie McKibben:" Soooo im 24 1/2 weeks and my whole pregnancy ive had little to no ex drive.... im just sooo tired and ... [snip!] ... he tells to endulge him and just do it to make him happy.. How do i get him to understand that its just not there for me..."

I didnt have a huge sex drive towards mid to end of pregnancy, but I gave him so sort of pleasure cause I felt bad!! He needs to understand, but because men dont go through it, they will never get it....Sorry momma!!

At least your man wants you. I have a higher sex drive than my boyfriend at 34 weeks   Makes me feel so unattractive.

He just wants some lovin! Give him a bj or hand job. Or tell him to take care of himself if you're that set on not being sexual. But IMO you compromise in relationships.

<blockquote><b>Quoting Erica ☆★:</b>" At least your man wants you. I have a higher sex drive than my boyfriend at 34 weeks   Makes me feel so unattractive. "</blockquote>




That's how it was for me too!! I was like wtf dude, we used to be rabbits! Men... Smh

I wish i had a sex drive of some sort.. i love cuddling and stuff lik that but sex is just not something i even wana think about..... and nothing but sex gets him to his happy place so idk what to do.... idk how to just do a little

Just sit him down and explain it to him. Tell him pregnancy affects each person differently and it has made you lose your sex drive. You can compromise and pleasure him orally or letting him get some at least once a week but when it comes down to it, if you are tired and don't want to, then don't... You don't have to do anything you don't want to.

Quoting Rydicule91:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Erica ☆★:</b>" At least your man wants you. I have ... [snip!] ... so unattractive. "</blockquote> That's how it was for me too!! I was like wtf dude, we used to be rabbits! Men... Smh

Right! We used to do it everyday, sometimes 3-4 times a day. Now he acts like its a chore. I really think he's just not attracted to my pregnant body. Ever since I got pregnant he's been downloading all these applications on his phone with sexy skinny naked women which normally wouldnt bug me but he never did that before I got big. It's just ironic.

<blockquote><b>Quoting Rydicule91:</b>" He just wants some lovin! Give him a bj or hand job. Or tell him to take care of himself if you're that set on not being sexual. But IMO you compromise in relationships."</blockquote>




None of that works for him.. and yes compromise is key but i can eem to find that middle :-/ i do feel bad tho.....

Quoting Erica ☆★:" At least your man wants you. I have a higher sex drive than my boyfriend at 34 weeks   Makes me feel so unattractive. "

Aw   I'm sorry I'm sure you're not! some men are dick heads lol, I'm still getting it at 38 weeks, I've told him he has 5 days to get all he can, he seems to think we'll be back at it 3 weeks PP, yeahhhhh haha.

Quoting bia.:" Aw   I'm sorry I'm sure you're not! some men are dick heads lol, I'm still getting it at 38 weeks, ... [snip!] ... it at 38 weeks, I've told him he has 5 days to get all he can, he seems to think we'll be back at it 3 weeks PP, yeahhhhh haha."

Lmao I keep telling my boyfriend to take advantage of it because after I have this kid, he's waiting the whole 6 weeks. He obviously doesn't think i'm serious lol

<blockquote><b>Quoting Erica ☆★:</b>" Right! We used to do it everyday, sometimes 3-4 times a day. Now he acts like its a chore. I really ... [snip!] ... his phone with sexy skinny naked women which normally wouldnt bug me but he never did that before I got big. It's just ironic."</blockquote>


Big is beautiful! In my opinion... but thats the reason he has such a hard time with it now

Quoting Chelsie McKibben:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Erica ☆★:</b>" Right! We used to do it everyday, ... [snip!] ... just ironic."</blockquote> Big is beautiful! In my opinion... but thats the reason he has such a hard time with it now"

I wish he would just realize that this isn't my body now, this is temporary. I'm jealous of you. I would love to be able to tell him no lol at least you know he still wants you   Take it as a very annoying compliment! lol

Lol everyone has their own struggle i guess... just remember thst he.loves u... may try to.talk to him about it Erica.. both of u shud b able to see the others views on the situation :-)

<blockquote><b>Quoting Erica ☆★:</b>" Right! We used to do it everyday, sometimes 3-4 times a day. Now he acts like its a chore. I really ... [snip!] ... his phone with sexy skinny naked women which normally wouldnt bug me but he never did that before I got big. It's just ironic."</blockquote>




Damn :/ I'd be upset