no one understands

I am like a hormonal wreck right now. I always feel like i'm by myself, and I never have anything to do. I have no real friends that I enjoy hanging out with, and my boyfriend decided to comment on how "it's not his fault that I don't have friends that I see regularly like he does" and continued to tell me that he doesn't deserve to be treated the way i've been treating him, I am not being a good partner because he doesn't get to have a say in things. I just don't know how to put everything in writing right now, I am just so upset. I feel like no one understands..and I still have another 20 weeks of this to go  

im in the same boat. id like to say it gets better but it really doesnt til after the baby is born and then some. id be your friend if we lived closer to eachother lol

I went through that, you suddenly become less interesting to friends or they don't invite you out because your pregnant and they presume you just don't wanna do stuff.

Why don't you see if there are any mum & baby/pregnant mum groups in your area? It helps to have someone around that understands, even if it's just once a week!

lol, I just feel so ridiculous like I am crying for no reason. It's just horrible to sit here and think that I have no one, and my boyfriend just does not understand how I am feeling and makes it so much worse!

Quoting ßεχ™:" I went through that, you suddenly become less interesting to friends or they don't invite you out because ... [snip!] ... & baby/pregnant mum groups in your area? It helps to have someone around that understands, even if it's just once a week!"

I've been wanting to try to search for online groups so maybe I can meet people, but just really don't know where I should start..

Quoting Nicole Loach:" lol, I just feel so ridiculous like I am crying for no reason. It's just horrible to sit here and think ... [snip!] ... sit here and think that I have no one, and my boyfriend just does not understand how I am feeling and makes it so much worse!"

Joys of pregnancy. do you have any friends with kids or that are pregnant? you should try to find some mommy friends. they understand a little better then others since then went threw it

Not really, I mean I know people with kids but they are a little older than me and their kids are 2 and 3 and they just started going out a little more now. I need pregnant friends that don't always want to drink or smoke! Someone who gets it! aggh it's frustrating lol

Quoting Nicole Loach:" I've been wanting to try to search for online groups so maybe I can meet people, but just really don't know where I should start.."

alot of health deptments do mommy meet ups and i know my library does too. just google it.

Quoting Nicole Loach:" Not really, I mean I know people with kids but they are a little older than me and their kids are 2 and ... [snip!] ... more now. I need pregnant friends that don't always want to drink or smoke! Someone who gets it! aggh it's frustrating lol"

you can try with your collage too. im sure your not the only pregnant chick on campus lol

Quoting Nicole Loach:" Not really, I mean I know people with kids but they are a little older than me and their kids are 2 and ... [snip!] ... more now. I need pregnant friends that don't always want to drink or smoke! Someone who gets it! aggh it's frustrating lol"

I feel your pain!! Luckily someone at work fell pregnant shortly after me so we could talk. But before that no one understood, and to be fair they wouldn't unless they have kids or are pregnant.

I understand... I am here in Alaska and everybody I know is in the lower 48. I don't have too many friends because i rarely get to leave the house. I throw all my time and energy into being and good wife and mom. It will get better after baby is born. What I do is get into some good T.V. shows and clean. I get on FB and talk to my friends plus I get on here and talk to people. I also try to look at the bright side of things, in every situation. 

Thanks everyone, I really apprieciate your input