re: 16 & Preggs

Quoting ☮Sugar Magnolia:" Ugh, and she was THERE when he drowned. How smurfing sad.  "

I can't imagine...

I would hope if it were me I could move on sooner than later, and would hope the same for my daughters. Its not doing her or her son any good to live life devastated. Its great she found someone to give her emotional support. Imagine never getting over a love from when you were 16. How many of us can say that their 16 year old love was true.

Quoting TantricLemons:" I would hope if it were me I could move on sooner than later, and would hope the same for my daughters. ... [snip!] ... support. Imagine never getting over a love from when you were 16. How many of us can say that their 16 year old love was true."

I feel like my 16 year old love was, I still care for him very deeply.


And I in no way meant my comment in a bad way. I'm very happy she's happy and moving on with her life. She was so depressed the entire episode, my heart hurt for her.
I just meant I was shocked, kwim?

Quoting ☮Sugar Magnolia:" I feel like my 16 year old love was, I still care for him very deeply. And I in no way meant my comment ... [snip!] ... and moving on with her life. She was so depressed the entire episode, my heart hurt for her. I just meant I was shocked, kwim?"

How old are you? Because I am going to be 29 in a couple of months, and while at the time I thought my high school boyfriend was true love, and even as I aged. But I will tell you at this point, he doesn't even enter my mind.

Quoting TantricLemons:" How old are you? Because I am going to be 29 in a couple of months, and while at the time I thought ... [snip!] ... my high school boyfriend was true love, and even as I aged. But I will tell you at this point, he doesn't even enter my mind."

I would hope 13 years later I wouldn't be devastated by it. I think its safe to say I wouldn't. I lost my brother 15 years ago and don't feel a ton of emotion surrounding it, its been to long.

They all make me cry! Ive seen every episode and they all make me cry. Even if they arent sad, i still do when the baby comes out. lol. But that episode was particularly sad! I couldnt imagine my BD dying. I would be wrecked.

Quoting TantricLemons:" How old are you? Because I am going to be 29 in a couple of months, and while at the time I thought ... [snip!] ... my high school boyfriend was true love, and even as I aged. But I will tell you at this point, he doesn't even enter my mind."

I'm almost 20. and I cannot wait for that day to come.


It could be because we had a horrible break up. He was sleeping with my best friend behind my back, and they started dating the day we broke up. I didn't find out about that until a couple of weeks later.
It smurfed me up though, that's for sure.

Quoting TantricLemons:" I would hope if it were me I could move on sooner than later, and would hope the same for my daughters. ... [snip!] ... support. Imagine never getting over a love from when you were 16. How many of us can say that their 16 year old love was true."

Definitely agree. Wasn't trying to come off as judgmental, I don't even know how long ago this episode was filmed, I only just saw it today. Much better for her and her son for her to be happy and with someone else than lingering int he sadness of her ex's death.

Quoting ☮Sugar Magnolia:" I'm almost 20. and I cannot wait for that day to come. It could be because we had a horrible break ... [snip!] ... the day we broke up. I didn't find out about that until a couple of weeks later. It smurfed me up though, that's for sure."

I had something similar happen to me around 19, it took about 4 years for me to feel nothing.

Quoting Mama MacGyver*:" Definitely agree. Wasn't trying to come off as judgmental, I don't even know how long ago this episode ... [snip!] ... Much better for her and her son for her to be happy and with someone else than lingering int he sadness of her ex's death."

I feel like as humans we feel we need to miss people and honor the dead by never moving on, but that makes no sense to me lol.