Quoting .B.:" If he can take care of his kid but not yours that would be a big problem for me."
Well it's not like she is just my kid and I leave her with him on my drill weekends (like he does with his son to me)... She is both of ours. His son is from his previous marriage. And before, I played that off as "He doesn't get to see him as much so he gives him more attention"... Well, now we have full custody of him. His mom sees him like once every 3-6 months. No reason for it now. And neglecting of her basic needs is ridiculous.