WTF..

So, next week I was suppose to fly out to see my sister for the holiday. It will be the only chance I have to do this for another full year or more.. Dh was suppose to buy my tickets 2 weeks ago and he didn't.. He just told me last night that he didn't-more like I had to beat an answer out of him! I was suppose to get out there on the 13th. Now he is using the excuse that his truck is broke down (bad wheel) and he tried to blame me for his wheel bearing going bad. It broke down last Thursday. So there really is no excuse.. I think he just didn't want me to go, being vindictive, because I won't have sex with him   I have plenty of reason not to.. Especially this. He was going to let me think it was booked and good to go until the day of.. It's not like I've had my sister in my life for my entire life. It's a weird situation. I'm 21 and she's 33, she just met me in person for the first time the week before thanksgiving when she flew here from Cali. We've only had phone/email contact because she does live so far away.. This whole thing is suppose to be a "family" week, not party time like he is assuming.. Smurfing hate him.. He's the sole income earner, I lost my job last October. I really need to do this.. He swore he would take care of it and book the flight.. smurfer

Im sorry  

He's so smurfing selfish

That is smurfed up hun

he would have just let you go to the Airport, all packed and smurf, to find out that he never bought the tix?

He has serious mental issues. I hope you can leave him son

<blockquote><b>Quoting Gir!:</b>" He's so smurfing selfish"</blockquote>

I'm not one for violence but I'd hit him, and I'd make it count lol that would beyond piss me off.

<blockquote><b>Quoting Kelly&Coralie:</b>" That is smurfed up hun he would have just let you go to the Airport, all packed and smurf, to find out that he never bought the tix? He has serious mental issues. I hope you can leave him son"</blockquote>




Yeah! I had to get him backed into a corner and demand an answer. I asked him SOOO many times if he did or not. Now the cost has DOUBLED just for the tickets. If it wasn't for the boys I'd go and stay out in the Carolina's or Cali, with family. I've had with this smurf and the excuses

<blockquote><b>Quoting Carol  :</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting Gir!:</b>" He's so smurfing selfish"</blockquote> I'm not one for violence but I'd hit him, and I'd make it count lol that would beyond piss me off."</blockquote>




I smurfing want to, but I don't want to lose my kids over assault

Quoting Gir!:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Kelly&Coralie:</b>" That is smurfed up hun he would have just ... [snip!] ... If it wasn't for the boys I'd go and stay out in the Carolina's or Cali, with family. I've had with this smurf and the excuses"

I'd still leave. You don't need to stay and be treated like this

and I hope he enjoys paying double for the tix. He only screwed himself

<blockquote><b>Quoting Gir!:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting Carol  :</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting Gir!:</b>" ... [snip!] ... lol that would beyond piss me off."</blockquote> I smurfing want to, but I don't want to lose my kids over assault"</blockquote>


Yeah it's def not the answer to help the situation.

<blockquote><b>Quoting Kelly&Coralie:</b>" I'd still leave. You don't need to stay and be treated like this and I hope he enjoys paying double for the tix. He only screwed himself"</blockquote>


I REALLY REALLY want to, but not having a car or an income is stopping me.. He's drained my savings because he wasn't paying the bills. From now on I'm wiping my hands clean of paying his bills.. If we starve its truly all on him.. Oh wait, he'll just mooch off of his parents  

Quoting Gir!:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Kelly&Coralie:</b>" I'd still leave. You don't need to stay ... [snip!] ... my hands clean of paying his bills.. If we starve its truly all on him.. Oh wait, he'll just mooch off of his parents  "

Can't you stay with family or friends until you get on your feet?

<blockquote><b>Quoting Carol  :</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting Gir!:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting Carol  :</b>" ... [snip!] ... to, but I don't want to lose my kids over assault"</blockquote> Yeah it's def not the answer to help the situation."</blockquote>




He's been telling me to hit him. I know he wants me to so that he could press charges. His family has been telling him how to really smurfed up my life. I caught him screwing around and because I flipped out on him, I'm maniac depressive and bipolar. So so not even close! He tried to say tht my father was bipolar-so I must be. NO, that smurfer was a sociopath and I couldn't be further from being that. There's just so much smurf that flies out of his mouth. He will never take the blame for his own actions

<blockquote><b>Quoting Kelly&Coralie:</b>" Can't you stay with family or friends until you get on your feet?"</blockquote>


The only ones that could help me live in Virginia, South Carolina, and Cali. I wouldn't be able to take the boys with me unless I had an income first. I really don't have much to go on and he's abusing that

Quoting Gir!:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Kelly&Coralie:</b>" Can't you stay with family or friends until ... [snip!] ... wouldn't be able to take the boys with me unless I had an income first. I really don't have much to go on and he's abusing that"

You can't take the boys and stay with family? I'm sory hun. That has to suck. I hope you can get out soon. Can anyone give you a small loan? Or can you get a small job and save?

Quoting Gir!:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Kelly&Coralie:</b>" Can't you stay with family or friends until ... [snip!] ... wouldn't be able to take the boys with me unless I had an income first. I really don't have much to go on and he's abusing that"

Is he holding it over your head, that you can't take the kids without a job? Could you start putting a little bit away and then get out of there and get a job once your with family? I'm sorry you have to deal with this.