dreams

So when I was a month into my pregnancy, My fiance and I lost a very very close friend, He seemed invincible, he was only 25 and it was very unexpected, I wasnt as close to him as my fiance was, but I am best friends with his wife, he had 2 children. I hate dreams, absolutely HATE the vivid, graphic, VERY real dreams I have! I wake up bawling my eyes out, and then its the only thing I think about all the time, I freak out if my fiance is a little late home or something, I am constantly having these dreams that I lose him, And the dreams are so real and so graphic its hard to get the images out of my mind, even afrter i wake up and see his is still beside me very much alive. Does anyone know how to deal with these dreams, its been 5 months and I am getting so wore out and drained with this.

Does he know about these worries?

I write them down

yeah he knows, He tries to calm my fears by telling me God will take care of us and everything, but that doesnt really help.

maybe you need to talk to someone like a counselor

Yeah he knows, He tries to calm my fears by telling me God will take care of us, but that doesnt really help, I know God will take care of us and do what he sees fit, but I still cant help but worry

It's okay to worry especially after loosing someone

I have very real graphic dreams to and they really bother me for the entire day. Thats all I think about. My mom is not the healthiest and I just had a dream this morning that I lost her right before I Gave birth. That's why I'm up right now cause I'm to distraught to go back to sleep.I've noticed since becoming pregnant I dream so of the off the wall stuff! I mean stuff that is literally insane.. I pray you find peace dear, and maybe try to find a counsler to talk to. I'm so sorry for your loss!

I thought about a counseler, but my only thing with that is what if after the pregnancy I dont have these dreams anymore, because i keep reading everywhere that pregnancy makes you have these kinds of dreams, so I think I might try to stick it out and see and if they dont go away by then, then I will see a counselor. Thank you guys!

The dreams are crazy during pregnancy. I started having vivid dreams about my SO cheating on me and then it would wake me up in the middle of the night and I would wake him up to tell him he is a cheater. He though I was crazy. My dreams turned into dreams about people dying to include my sister and my mother and I would wake up with my face and pillow covered in tears and these dreams would be stuck in my head for the remainder of the day or for days after. I would even go as far to call my mom and tell her to be extra careful. I have even had dreams about giving birth to animals...it is so crazy but from what I have read is a normal part of pregnancy.

And also, don't expect the dreams to go away immediately after giving birth...your hormones will still be out of whack.

wow, those are some crazy dreams, I just hope they dont last for to long after giving birth.