re: sister rant

<blockquote><b>Quoting 1st1ontheway:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting Ashley Zernell:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting 1st1ontheway:</b>" ... [snip!] ... do it. People suggest abortion to a lot of people. She was just telling you your options. So yes I think you are over reacting."</blockquote>




that's your opinion and your are entitled to that, just like i am entitled to mine..doesn't mean im gonna change my mind..how about when my daughter is older she looks my daughter in her face and tell her how in all reality she didnt want her to be on this earth

<blockquote><b>Quoting Ashley Zernell:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting 1st1ontheway:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting Ashley ... [snip!] ... my daughter is older she looks my daughter in her face and tell her how in all reality she didnt want her to be on this earth"</blockquote>




What part of suggestion are you not able to comprehend? Be the bigger person. Don't wallow in self pity that she "stole your thunder".

<blockquote><b>Quoting 1st1ontheway:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting Ashley Zernell:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting 1st1ontheway:</b>" ... [snip!] ... of suggestion are you not able to comprehend? Be the bigger person. Don't wallow in self pity that she "stole your thunder"."</blockquote>




i don't care if it was a suggestion or not..so everything your saying is irrelevant..i am being the bigger person..if i wasn't i wouldnt be happy for her or excited that i now have another niece or nephew on the way and i could have been a real bitch and "suggested" she get an abortion..but im not like that..i keep my feelings to myself and let others actions speak for themselves

I know how you feel. When I first got pregnant my brother wanted me too, because he thought I'd be a smurffy parent. He went as far as telling me not to ever come back to his house. After he did some growing up and got his own pregnant girl he was sorry and he wanted to be friends again. I forgive him.

<blockquote><b>Quoting ~Stephany~:</b>" I know how you feel. When I first got pregnant my brother wanted me too, because he thought I'd be a ... [snip!] ... After he did some growing up and got his own pregnant girl he was sorry and he wanted to be friends again. I forgive him."</blockquote>




its hard to forgive someone who obviously just doesn't care..she can't even ask me how things are going, how im feelin, never asks what my Dr says not even to see an ultrasound picture..so im gonna let her live in her own little world where she has been for years and go on and continue to bake my daughter and wait and pray for a healthy beautiful little girl

Quoting Ashley Zernell:" <blockquote><b>Quoting ~Stephany~:</b>" I know how you feel. When I first got pregnant ... [snip!] ... where she has been for years and go on and continue to bake my daughter and wait and pray for a healthy beautiful little girl"

If she shows no.remorse etc. Then I don't blame you.

<blockquote><b>Quoting Ashley Zernell:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting 1st1ontheway:</b>" I think you are over reacting a little. Not ... [snip!] ... at the end of the day I don't want someone around smiling in my daughter's face who in all reality wanted me to abort her"</blockquote>



Chill out. My parents wanted me to abort both of my kids. Mainly bc they knew how hard of a life i was going to have (i was 16 then 18 when i got pregnant)

My parents love my kids. More than anything.. They came around after they were born. But didnt show much enthusiasm while i was pregnant..

<blockquote><b>Quoting *Amo a Mis Nenas*:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting Ashley Zernell:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting 1st1ontheway:</b>" ... [snip!] ... love my kids. More than anything.. They came around after they were born. But didnt show much enthusiasm while i was pregnant.."</blockquote>




in my eyes if yu can't even take 2 minutes out of your day to even ask me about anything but you can take time out of your day to text me pictures of your daughter and tell me a story about your daughter then you don't care and i don't want people like that around my daughter..things are already gonna be awkward enough for daughter when she is around i don't want someone in her face pretending

<blockquote><b>Quoting Ashley Zernell:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting 1st1ontheway:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting Ashley ... [snip!] ... "suggested" she get an abortion..but im not like that..i keep my feelings to myself and let others actions speak for themselves"</blockquote>




Lady.. You need to calm down. Grow up. And quit acting like a child. Who cares if she suggested an abortion? So what? You made the right choice for you. Just bc she isnt talking to you now, doesnt mean she wont come around... And also, your mother can talk to you, and about your sister as well. No one is stealing your thunder....

<blockquote><b>Quoting Ashley Zernell:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting *Amo a Mis Nenas*:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting Ashley ... [snip!] ... are already gonna be awkward enough for daughter when she is around i don't want someone in her face pretending"</blockquote>



You have a lot of growing up to do...

im very grown thank you, but just like i told someone else you are entitled to your opinion just like i am entitled to mine..its a feelin, so what? im 6 months pregnant and hormonal..there is a lot more to the issues between me abs my sister that isn't posted so with that being said thank you for your opinion and have a nice day  

<blockquote><b>Quoting Ashley Zernell:</b>" im very grown thank you, but just like i told someone else you are entitled to your opinion just like ... [snip!] ... the issues between me abs my sister that isn't posted so with that being said thank you for your opinion and have a nice day  "</blockquote>




Well your sister was entitled to her opinion too. And your body may be "grown" but your attitude isn't.

<blockquote><b>Quoting 1st1ontheway:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting Ashley Zernell:</b>" im very grown thank you, but just like ... [snip!] ... Well your sister was entitled to her opinion too. And your body may be "grown" but your attitude isn't."</blockquote>




yes she is.entitled to her opinion and i could care less what you think of my attitude..i know the type of person i am and how my life is on a day to day basis..so like i said thanks for your opinion, since you don't like my attitude you can stop wasting your time..good thing this is just the internet

Quoting Ashley Zernell:" im very grown thank you, but just like i told someone else you are entitled to your opinion just like ... [snip!] ... the issues between me abs my sister that isn't posted so with that being said thank you for your opinion and have a nice day  "

i'm sorry, but we are the same age. and i don't act as immature as you are. everyone has issues between their siblings. so what? and being pregnant and hormonal is NO REASON to be acting the way you are. sorry. if you can't take criticism, then maybe this isn't the site for you... i'm sorry you didn't get the responses that YOU wanted to hear. but we were pointing out what WE SEE. so therefore, you might want to rethink the way you present yourself. just FYI..