Quoting lolajessup:" So I am really struggling with the thought of a csection. I just wanted this to be my pregnancy where ... [snip!] ... overwhelmed? I just feel like I've reached the end of my rope and I need to climb back up, I just dont have the strength yet "
why do you ahve to have a premie and a section?
don't feel guilt. There is no redeaming yourself mama. There's nothing wrong with a section. It doesnt' make you or your doctor a faliure. I have had 2... I look at it as wonderful that I could have such a life-saving procedure. Both my babies and myself are alive. My vaginal birth didn't make me a better mom. honestly.. I was too exhausted to even stay awake between contractions. They had to keep waking me to push. I bonded with my section babies better right away.. because I wans't falling asleep