Quoting lolajessup:" <blockquote><b>Quoting ℐ+ℳ=£:</b>" Oh hun, it's completely understandable. ... [snip!] ... It also says babies need delivered by 35 weeks. If you go there there's a link called risk factors on the left for more info."
Isn't there something they do for incompetent cervix that would keep your cervix closed? A cerclage, is it? I'm not 100% but I thought they could stitch your cervix closed until 36 weeks or something. It's so lucky they caught it though, it looks like it goes unnoticed quite a bit.
I feel kinda bad now, I bitched from 38 weeks onwards
I'm sorry you don't get to get to that stage of your pregnancy
It'll be hard with a preemie, but the hospital will help you and I'm sure there are some mama's on here that would be happy to share their experiences. I'm not much help, I haven't got any experience with preemies or anything (hell, I've only got 5 weeks experience with being a mother to a full term baby) but I'm a good listener even though I'm so tired I'm almost illiterate at the moment, so feel free to message me if you need to vent or anything. I like learning things so could be helpful googling stuff for you