Quoting Melissa Eager:" I would! I've already warned mine that if he didn't help when I obviously need/ask for it, he's getting a slap upside his head. He helped make him he helps clean him. That's the deal!"
Mine isn't just that. I'm a SAHM so I don't mind but we just got a new puppy for DD for Christmas and I'm dealing with her, the puppy's potty training, and cleaning and laundry, and the end of the quarter is coming up at school and I have had papers due. While I was cooking dinner and he was watching TV, he yells to me that the dog is peeing on the floor. "Hurry! Get him!"
Mother smurfer, I'm busy. You see the dog taking a piss, STOP HIM!
I swear to God.
He does this when we fight too.
Me: "You aren't spending time with me."
Him: "Yes I am"
This goes on and on for weeks. Then I bring it up again VERY upset and he goes "you should have told me."
Mother smurfer, I did 1,000 times!