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Quoting Amanda Contento:"  "

It would get the point across. I am an evil bitch and I would want to hurt him like he hurt me because at that point (for us even before that) it counts as cheating. I would make it clear that I am not going to deal with this smurf at all.

Quoting iLL-Legal Alien:" Were are you getting those facts from? his email? his browsing history? IDK if you know this but sometimes ... [snip!] ... And if you put your email on any porn sites you also get things like that. So just make sure he actually had those intentions."

This!

I am very sorry DH was doing something similar a while back, along with getting dirty pics from a few different women. I confronted DH about it. I am totally fine with him watching porn, I could careless about it but when you start interacting with other women we have a problem. I would just be straight up and ask him what the smurf is he doing. Hope things get better between you.

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Is it an Iphone? You can screen shot that really easy by pushing the button on the top and the circle button at the same time.
Are you wanting proof to confront him with before you actually confront him?

I would think if this was on the history repeatedly then that would be proof enough and if you check under that one there should be other links to show where all he went on that web page so that would confirm it.

<blockquote><b>Quoting iLL-Legal Alien:</b>" Were are you getting those facts from? his email? his browsing history? IDK if you know this but sometimes ... [snip!] ... And if you put your email on any porn sites you also get things like that. So just make sure he actually had those intentions."</blockquote>



This! Whenever SO tries watching online porn those live webcam girls sites auromatically pop up. He doesn't notice that there's tons of windows opened up. Then again he's not very tech ssavvy. If your married check your bank statements ect to see if there's random purchases

Quoting £iones§:" I got it on his browser history on our phone. Do they have pop ups on phones?"

Yup!

Be direct, upfront, open minded. Also be honest about your feelings, wants and needs .
Remember...with a topic like that, he is going to be reading your body language, facial expressions, tone of your voice...everything. Naturally he will be on the defensive ..Reassure him you are not mad or tripping, just concerned, wanting to fix the problem or join in on the fun.
Oh and never start by saying..."We need to talk."
Call him in the room and say"hey love I was wondering"., or " I was thinking "
Anything except "we need to talk". 

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Quoting £iones§:" "

If there are multiples, for me, that would be more than enough proof to convict his ass.

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Quoting £iones§:"

This has been my experience with it. When I go online on my phone, I'll go to the site and watch a video, every time I click on a video one of those pop ups comes up...I know this because when I close it down (just the page for the video) the next page comes up and then I check my tabs and there's like multiple tabs up with websites like that.

Just sit down with him and ask him directly but calmly.

Quoting £iones§:" Raindancer your cracking me up when I want to cry  "

Sorry.  

I know no matter what we will not get a divorce. I want my son to have a family and I truly love my husband and plan on trying to work things out. I just need to think about how exactly to confront him without him becoming all defensive because it will truly be a problem then.