re: Arguing..Advice?

Quoting ღ.ღ.ღ:" Do you work? No you might not live together but you said you don't care who he talks you yet you want ... [snip!] ... about them, but you also have your own time to get a break or get away for a little bit. Do you call him multiple times a day?"

No..I have no support and live with my mom and am the only one taking care of our daughter day in and day out...i NEVER get a break, he gets a break all the time...he only see's us on the weekends...he gets all his damn breaks..

Quoting Honey Boo Boo:" No, him and i just have one child together he has no other kids and neither do i...and he supports ... [snip!] ... he said if we break up he would work with me..but he is BSing so i told him i'd rather do child support but he rather not.."

I would start child support now, really. If he is going to pay it, whats the difference with it being through court to make sure.

He has nothing to worry about unless he doesnt pay it..

Quoting JessieLeeAnne:" I would start child support now, really. If he is going to pay it, whats the difference with it being through court to make sure. He has nothing to worry about unless he doesnt pay it.. "

Well were together at the moment, but after his little melt down to me...i feel confused and useless...and hated kind of...I don't know..i dread talking to him tonight...and i want to honestly...but he also through in the comment "i am not giving you my pay check every week to sit around" ...that comment alone was so smurffy...in fact he sits around all day until he works 7-11...working cashier at a gas station...i'd never take my daughters money.

Quoting Honey Boo Boo:" No..I have no support and live with my mom and am the only one taking care of our daughter day in and ... [snip!] ... day out...i NEVER get a break, he gets a break all the time...he only see's us on the weekends...he gets all his damn breaks.."

Make him pay child support and go apply for help with daycare and get a job, no support or not you need to do whatever it takes to care for your daughter. Don't rely on someone else to do it even if that other person is her parent.

I just read the whole thread. He sounds like an immature little brat. Why are you even marrying him? It just is so odd to me that you'd have a child together but he can't step up so you guys can live as a family. Of course there are avenues you can take as well to get a job, but yeah.

5 years and nothing... what happens after you get married? Does he plan to live with his parents for the rest of his life? Honestly this in itself seems like a cop out and I wouldn't spend the rest of my life waiting around for a boy who may never man up.

Quoting Ryloonjimama:" I just read the whole thread. He sounds like an immature little brat. Why are you even marrying him? ... [snip!] ... this in itself seems like a cop out and I wouldn't spend the rest of my life waiting around for a boy who may never man up."

He has his days, he is immature...but always tells me to grow up...we on and off argue...but see with that..he says i need to get a job and get off my ass...but he has also told me he wants to be the only one working...makes no sense..but you are very right..idk...i love spending all my time raising my daughter..just rather not be doing it alone at my parents for the rest of my life either...yeah this is an insane situation...