re: young mommas. rant.

<blockquote><b>Quoting Gemmas mommy!:</b>" OKAY, TO ALL THE PEOPLE WHO THINK THIS IS ABOUT A BABY NAME. NO, ITS NOT IN MY POST I DIDNT EVEN PUT ... [snip!] ... ABOUT EXACTLY WHAT I SAID IN MY POST, IF IT WAS ABOUT A BABY NAME I WOULD STILL BE ON THAT POST BITCHING ABOUT IT. understand?"</blockquote>




People love drama around here.

Quoting Janessa *:" Understandable. But then again, It IS the internet..who cares what other people think lol"

not all the things have happened on the internet only one that i mentioned has happened. i just dont like being sterotyped and labled.

<blockquote><b>Quoting Gemmas mommy!:</b>" OKAY, TO ALL THE PEOPLE WHO THINK THIS IS ABOUT A BABY NAME. NO, ITS NOT IN MY POST I DIDNT EVEN PUT ... [snip!] ... ABOUT EXACTLY WHAT I SAID IN MY POST, IF IT WAS ABOUT A BABY NAME I WOULD STILL BE ON THAT POST BITCHING ABOUT IT. understand?"</blockquote>




Damn girl. Chill. Its a public forum. People are going to post smurf you don't like. So either suck it up and move on or gtfo. Seriously. Not everyone on the internet is going to kiss your ass or sugar coat everything.

Quoting Gemmas mommy!:" not all the things have happened on the internet only one that i mentioned has happened. i just dont like being sterotyped and labled."

It's going to happen for the rest of your life. There will always be someone who judges you. I hate it too, but ehh... what can you do?
Choosing not to listen to them would probably be the best thing.

Quoting LIVE.OUT.LOUD:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Gemmas mommy!:</b>" OKAY, TO ALL THE PEOPLE WHO THINK THIS IS ... [snip!] ... suck it up and move on or gtfo. Seriously. Not everyone on the internet is going to kiss your ass or sugar coat everything."

i didnt say they had to, i was making a point that thats not what this was about. this is about the judgment people face on and off the interent.

Quoting ♥Mama Constantine:" It's going to happen for the rest of your life. There will always be someone who judges you. I hate it ... [snip!] ... who judges you. I hate it too, but ehh... what can you do? Choosing not to listen to them would probably be the best thing. "

thats what i usualy do, but like i said before i needed to vent.

Well you seem real mature.  

Oh sweetie...don't you know you can't say what you feel on here without bein bashed for it??? SmUrf EM. 18 sounds old enough to me. Ppl kinda judge me b/c my baby's dad is in jail at the moment. Some total stranger even told me not to have anymore kids. That doesn't make ME a bad parent. Just smurf it smurf them be a good mama.

Everyone gets judged, for different reasons. I mean it sucks, but it's how things are.

I know this will sound condescending, but as you get older, it will bother you less. That has been the case with me, anyway.

Just try not to think of it.

Exactly who is the bitch again, the woman who expressed genuine hurt for being ridiculed or the little bitches who followed her to another post to berate her some more. Yeah I said it, don't smurfing like it... HOW ABOUT YOU GROW A PAIR!?!?!

Quoting Sarah Snipes:" Exactly who is the bitch again, the woman who expressed genuine hurt for being ridiculed or the little ... [snip!] ... followed her to another post to berate her some more. Yeah I said it, don't smurfing like it... HOW ABOUT YOU GROW A PAIR!?!?!"

 
Love it.

Quoting Sarah Snipes:" Exactly who is the bitch again, the woman who expressed genuine hurt for being ridiculed or the little ... [snip!] ... followed her to another post to berate her some more. Yeah I said it, don't smurfing like it... HOW ABOUT YOU GROW A PAIR!?!?!"

You done? Being judged is a part of life.
She's going to have to deal with it. If she's confident in herself, and her choices, (which it seems like she is for the most part), then it shouldn't matter. There's no reason dwelling on it.

People seriously think this is all about the name? I have seen Op in numerous threads, her own and others. People are always saying smurf to her and putting her down. I personally have seen her be called an uneducated teen mom, and have people argue with her when she says she isn't just a teen mom, but an adult. So seriously get over yourselves.

Op, its hard, i know it is. But you just got let it roll of your back. I look about 16, so i'm ALWAYS getting weird looks when i go out. Doesn't help my DF looks a lot older than me. Ignore the rude comments and looks, and just know that you're gonna give LO the best life you possibly can. Let her be your strength.

Quoting ♥Mama Constantine:" You done? Being judged is a part of life. She's going to have to deal with it. If she's confident in ... [snip!] ... and her choices, (which it seems like she is for the most part), then it shouldn't matter. There's no reason dwelling on it. "

So she's the only one on this ENTIRE site to ever rant about something? Yeah, its life, but seriously, that doesn't make it any damn easier. And you know what? Sometimes people just need to rant and get it out. Its a part of life.

Constantine-being judged may damn well be a part of life but really who is the weak one here? Think about how you "women" are acting. You make yourself look trashy when you put other people down and it disgusts me. How about have some common decency or come after me because trust me honey I've hardened up and can handle it for the both of us!

One of these days those that attack others, torture, berate, judge will finally be seen for what they are: DAMAGED PEOPLE!