re: young mommas. rant.

i was 15 when i got pregnant and 16 when i had my son i never felt people looked or judged me !! or mabey i just didnt notice cuz i didnt care haha!

<blockquote><b>Quoting ❥Charli:</b>" and BTW i was never ridiculed by others by being a 'teen mommy'. I was 18 when I had my daughter. But I didnt classify myself as a teen mother. I was just another mother."</blockquote>

  This!

Quoting Janessa *:" One thing i've learned is to just let it slide, especially on here. This is just going to make it worse ... [snip!] ... People will judge you whether you are a teen, an adult, or 65 years old..thats life though. Just have to learn to ignore it."

i get that, and i try to ignore it, when in my head im cussing the person out. i hate how people get judged for every little thing. i just had to vent because if not it was just going to keep bothering me.

<blockquote><b>Quoting ♥Mama Constantine:</b>" Is this because they didn't like your baby name?"</blockquote>

I think the Middles she is looking for suck.

<blockquote><b>Quoting ♥ Jayme's Mommy:</b>" I was 21, married, and I still got those looks."</blockquote>


  but I was 20 when I had my daughter. I still get those looks sometimes and now I have two kids. Just have to ignore them.

Quoting Gemmas mommy!:" i get that, and i try to ignore it, when in my head im cussing the person out. i hate how people get ... [snip!] ... i hate how people get judged for every little thing. i just had to vent because if not it was just going to keep bothering me. "

You're letting a bunch of possibly hormonal women on the internet get to you?
Grow a pair. They're not there every day by your side. If you don't like it, log off. You'll be judged no matter what you do.
It's life.

Quoting Mrs.Dani:" <blockquote><b>Quoting ♥Mama Constantine:</b>" Is this because they didn't like your baby name?"</blockquote> I think the Middles she is looking for suck."

Nobody in here likes my kid's name either. It's "youneek" and whatever else...  That didn't stop me from naming my child what I wanted. If she wanted to, she could do the same, and not make another post bitching about it.
OP if they don't like the name. WHO CARES?! Don't be so butthurt.

Quoting Gemmas mommy!:" i get that, and i try to ignore it, when in my head im cussing the person out. i hate how people get ... [snip!] ... i hate how people get judged for every little thing. i just had to vent because if not it was just going to keep bothering me. "

Understandable. But then again, It IS the internet..who cares what other people think lol

Quoting ♥Mama Constantine:" You're letting a bunch of possibly hormonal women on the internet get to you? Grow a pair. They're not ... [snip!] ... They're not there every day by your side. If you don't like it, log off. You'll be judged no matter what you do. It's life. "

no, its not just the one thing that was said to me over the internet. that was just the last straw. a lot of things have happened in person and such and i try not to let it get to me because i understand being judged is a part of life but like i said i need to vent and i wanted to see if others feel the same as me.

Quoting ♥Mama Constantine:" Nobody in here likes my kid's name either. It's "youneek" and whatever else...  That didn't stop ... [snip!] ... do the same, and not make another post bitching about it. OP if they don't like the name. WHO CARES?! Don't be so butthurt. "

there are alot of people who don't like my sons name. but IDC. They can say what they want but in the end, I'm his mother..

Quoting Gemmas mommy!:" no, its not just the one thing that was said to me over the internet. that was just the last straw. ... [snip!] ... i understand being judged is a part of life but like i said i need to vent and i wanted to see if others feel the same as me. "

Everyone on this site, I'm sure, has been judged, ridiculed, looked down upon.. ect. You either dwell on it, or move on. It sounds like you're dwelling, and throwing yourself a little pity party here. So why don't you call a friend, and go out, and clear your mind? You don't have much longer to do that on your own. Go read a book, or watch a movie.

<blockquote><b>Quoting ♥Mama Constantine:</b>" Nobody in here likes my kid's name either. It's "youneek" and whatever else...  That didn't stop ... [snip!] ... do the same, and not make another post bitching about it. OP if they don't like the name. WHO CARES?! Don't be so butthurt. "</blockquote>

Yeah I can have an opinion but im not saying she shouldn't do what she wants. She doesn't need to bitch about it though.

I got pregnant with my 1st son at 17 and never got judged or anything. I think it has a lot to do with how you carry yourself and come across to other people. If you act like a teen mom you will be treated like one (I know a few 30 year holds that act like teen moms and they get judged like crazy)

Quoting Mrs.Dani:" <blockquote><b>Quoting ♥Mama Constantine:</b>" Nobody in here likes my kid's ... [snip!] ... Yeah I can have an opinion but im not saying she shouldn't do what she wants. She doesn't need to bitch about it though."

Exactly. It's her baby, and she can name her as she pleases. There's no need in making this thread, at all.

OKAY, TO ALL THE PEOPLE WHO THINK THIS IS ABOUT A BABY NAME. NO, ITS NOT IN MY POST I DIDNT EVEN PUT A BABY NAME I ASKED FOR SUGGESTIONS. THIS IS ABOUT EXACTLY WHAT I SAID IN MY POST, IF IT WAS ABOUT A BABY NAME I WOULD STILL BE ON THAT POST BITCHING ABOUT IT. understand?