Quoting *~Bunny~Hump~*:" You've been seeing a guy for about 4 months, and he told you he didnt' know what he wanted as far as ... [snip!] ... relationship anyway in hopes he will figure it out (if things were going good), or not talk to him until he figured it out??? "
I wouldn't continue it as a relationship more than friendship.
Sorry, I've grown up I know what I want and I've also learned those who don't know, wont know all of the sudden and I wouldn't want to wait around for years for him to figure out what he even wants out of life... not if he wants it with me, i understand relationships end because the people aren't right for each other... but he just doesn't know what he generally wants? Then no... I wouldn't waste time.