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If you found you husband/so sexting random girls, would you leave him because once a cheater always a cheater. Hes got caught before just never had proof. And promised to change.

Hes also sometimes abusive physically(never hit her just grabbed her and pushed he) and emotionally (behind closed doors) treats her like a princess in public shes been trying to stick it out for the kids but now since she found the sexting shes just done.  

I feel so bad for her and the kids.

Wwyd?

leave. no question.

Is this a serious question?

I'd leave if someone was abusing me, end of story.

So many unhealthy thi gs in that relationship. It's not good for children to be raised around that. I would have to leave for the safety of myself and my children.

I would leave and never look back. It's better for kids to see their parents happy even if it means they aren't together.

That's probably easier said than done.

<blockquote><b>Quoting marisssa ♥:</b>" Is this a serious question?"</blockquote>




Unfortunaltly. She just doesnt know what to do its christmas time she is so hurt and confused my heart is broken for them  

I'd make a huge effort to leave because of the abusive. It starts off with just a push or with emotional abuse...it often gets much worse. I don't believe in the once a cheater always a cheater BS. People can change.

I recently caught DH masturbating while talking on the phone with an old friend. It pissed me off to no end and after a week of awkwardness between us I just couldn't deal with it anymore. I made him leave a couple of days ago.

If it was just te cheating...yeah I'd stay and seek marriage counseling. But the abuse, no...I'd leave

Leave.

I know it is easier said than done, but it will only continue to happen and it will probably get worse.

Would you wait till after christmas.?

Quoting Maebaby2012:" Would you wait till after christmas.?"

No, I'd leave as soon as I could.

Hes military and shes from FL. And they only have one car or would you just leave now with the car and he would be screwed, id drive her and the kids if i had a second car and a larger car. This is so smurffy everyone here is getting divorced or seperated.