Quoting Stephanie Vetor:" yeah that would be really hard I don't know what I would do. my husband goes out of state for his job ... [snip!] ... a movie together let you lay in h is arms or something. this is why some people cheat. I personally commend you if you haven't."
I have asked him for small steps like when the baby is naping I will say hey if you can't get in the mood then can we just have that time to hug or just turn off the tv and phones and maybe just give back rubs or something and he always says OK but it will never ever happen.
I remember one time before I was pregnat he was in the shower and I made the room all nice by lighing candles and got massage lotions and all that out and put on my sexy outfit.
Then wehn he got out he got dressed! I said no I have planned somthing special for you. Please undress. He was so mad and even yelled at me for trying to help him undress.
But he did take of his top and i gave him a nice long massage and he did get aroused and then I tried to take his pants off and move on to making love and he got mad and pushed me away.
This was eraly on... before I was pregnat. I remember I asked him if he was Gay the next day or if he had been molested or somthing. Not long later he said he did not know what was wrong because he had never been like this before.
He told me he always had a lot of sex with all his ex's and then therapy we found it was from his tramatic accedent he was in about a year before we meet.