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re: If you love sex,advise PLEASE

posted 3rd Dec
tell him if he doesnt try to start meeting your need then youll find what you need else where that what i would say not that i ever would do something like that but maybe that will put some pep in his step
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posted 3rd Dec
Quoting *Ashley F*:" tell him if he doesnt try to start meeting your need then youll find what you need else where that what ... [snip!] ... need else where that what i would say not that i ever would do something like that but maybe that will put some pep in his step"

I have said this a lot of times. Nothing happens. I can't really just leave because I don't work so it would be a very big process in getting a job and all that. Plus I do hate this problem but I love him very much. Leaving would be very hard.
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I have 1 child & live in California
posted 3rd Dec
Quoting applelove:" I have said this a lot of times. Nothing happens. I can't really just leave because I don't work so ... [snip!] ... big process in getting a job and all that. Plus I do hate this problem but I love him very much. Leaving would be very hard. "


your pretty much stuck between a rock and a hard place i dont know what else to say it sounds to me that you really do love this man and that is something special because not many people find their soul mate the best i can tell you is to keep trying.. have you gone with him to therapy? it also seems to me like he tried in the beginning to try and fix things but has just givin up
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posted 3rd Dec
If he wasnt willing to seek help to try and make things better, id leave. I love affection. Wether it be hugs, kisses, and of course, sex.. I couldnt do without feeling like my DH didnt love me..
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I have 3 kids & live in Birmingham, Alabama
posted 3rd Dec
Quoting *Ashley F*:" "

I have asked him about why he is not trying and he said that he has seen tons of dr and therapist and nothing helps and somethings have made him worse and he feels helpless.
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I have 1 child & live in California
posted 3rd Dec
I'm in the same boat. I'm going to keep eye on this topic.
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I'm due December 13th, have 1 child & live in Denver, Colorado
posted 5th Dec
i think sex is easy, it's easy to get, to find it anywhere
love? love is hard.
i would accept him for who he is. whatever his reasons, he won't be able to make himself want to have sex
he may be able to force himself to PRETEND, but he'll just resent you for it.

some people actually are just sexless. maybe think of it as a disability, which is actually exactly what it is...
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I have 2 kids & live in New York, New York
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