Quoting Jude the Super Kinkster:" <blockquote><b>Quoting BrittanieY:</b>" That was us as well and it only makes it worse ... [snip!] ... massage and just see where it goes. Sometimes relaxing is the trick. "</blockquote> I don't like when he touches me."

i hate to say it but that is problly why you cant get off... if you dont like when he touches you then how do you expect to get off while having sex with him

Quoting BrittanieY:" I can't do that. Once I'm done, I'm done. Everything starts to get over-sensitive and swollen and uncomfortable. I've never thought about it but I wonder if that's weird of me  ."

No its not weird. I have a small window after I have an orgasm where it feels amazing to continue having sex but then after a couple minutes I get really sensitive and sore down there but by that time he's usually finished haha. Although if I rest for like 10 minutes the sensitivity goes away and I can go again.

<blockquote><b>Quoting she nan igans:</b>" I'd look into that. Depression perhaps? Anxiety? That seems like the underlying cause. "</blockquote>


You think so? I didn't know that those could cause physical pain. I'll look into it.

Quoting Jude the Super Kinkster:" <blockquote><b>Quoting she nan igans:</b>" I'd look into that. Depression perhaps? ... [snip!] ... underlying cause. "</blockquote> You think so? I didn't know that those could cause physical pain. I'll look into it."

Yep. Heck, even fibromyalgia has a lot in common with depression. I didn't even realize I WAS depressed. They treated the depression with Prozac which has also done wonders with my fibromyalgia.

It makes me think of the Cymbalta commercial. "Depression hurts, but Cymbalta can help." Sorry, but seriously. Depression and anxiety can both cause physical pain, and go further to even being linked to fibro pain (though that's much worse and an overall pain).

Quoting Jude the Super Kinkster:" <blockquote><b>Quoting she nan igans:</b>" I'd look into that. Depression perhaps? ... [snip!] ... underlying cause. "</blockquote> You think so? I didn't know that those could cause physical pain. I'll look into it."

Do you have diabetes? Or are you pregnant?
My mom has diabetes and the nerves in her arms and legs are SO sensitive, sometimes it hurts when people touch her or her arm just grazes a wall.
Being pregnant, you have a lot of extra blood volume which can make your skin VERY sensitive and make a lot of normal things uncomfortable.

<blockquote><b>Quoting T + T = A S G ♥:</b>" Do you have diabetes? Or are you pregnant? My mom has diabetes and the nerves in her arms and legs are ... [snip!] ... you have a lot of extra blood volume which can make your skin VERY sensitive and make a lot of normal things uncomfortable."</blockquote>




No to both I think. It used to be just my back but not it's all over. Like rigbt now LO is climbing on me and it hurts.

<blockquote><b>Quoting T + T = A S G ♥:</b>" Do you have diabetes? Or are you pregnant? My mom has diabetes and the nerves in her arms and legs are ... [snip!] ... you have a lot of extra blood volume which can make your skin VERY sensitive and make a lot of normal things uncomfortable."</blockquote>




No to both I think. It used to be just my back but not it's all over. Like rigbt now LO is climbing on me and it hurts.

<blockquote><b>Quoting she nan igans:</b>" Yep. Heck, even fibromyalgia has a lot in common with depression. I didn't even realize I WAS depressed. ... [snip!] ... both cause physical pain, and go further to even being linked to fibro pain (though that's much worse and an overall pain). "</blockquote>



I haven't felt depressed lately. maybe I am

Quoting Jude the Super Kinkster:" <blockquote><b>Quoting she nan igans:</b>" Yep. Heck, even fibromyalgia has a lot ... [snip!] ... fibro pain (though that's much worse and an overall pain). "</blockquote> I haven't felt depressed lately. maybe I am"

I seriously didn't think I was depressed at all. Once I started the Prozac I realized I had been. Heck, I cried almost every day because I was stressed with the kids and the pain, and everything. However, since I'd dealt with BAD depression before, I didn't realize it was an issue. Once I started the pills it's amazing how my life turned around. It also helped incredibly with the fibro. It went from being hard to even care for the kids to being able to take them to the park twice a day now and being in little to no pain most days.

Every time, many times.

I have always had trouble getting off alone. Since I started anti-depressants, I'm hornier but have more trouble reaching orgasm. Super, lol.
It doesn't help that my BF just randomly is not in the mood for a week at the time.   I have a sex addiction, to not get off is torture.  

I sometimes do and I sometimes don't. If I'm not into it or its hurting, I won't finish. Sometimes my mind keeps wandering and I can't finish. Other times I finish fast, just depends.

Maybe once or twice a month ... its not important to me.