If you have been cheated on or fell out of love!

2 questions

If you have been cheated on. How did you find out? and did your OH act differently around you.

And how did you know/feel you fell out of love with someone ( if you ever have)

I found out because he wasn't even trying to hide it. We are still together, I forgave him but I will never forget.

I fall out of love with my SO whenever I'm depressed, I hold a lot of resentment towards him. But we work through it.

One of my ex's cheated on me. I found out because we were at the same party, and he cheated on me in the backyard of the house where we were partying. He wasn't the brightest haha. I broke up with him on the spot; I had been wanting to end it for a while anyway.

Not sure about the second one. I have thought about leaving DH before when we had a really rough patch, but I still loved him. The thought of my life without him was enough to make me stay and work through our problems.

My ex just acted sketchy and secretive about where he was going or said he was working late... I later found the dumbass π@got with her in my car ( he didnt have one ) while I was in the icu when I found her earring on the back seat and caught his ass on the phone with her saying it was his sister...scum bag!

Falling out of love....I found myself not really caring about anything that had to do with him or if I saw him .

Quoting Leapling'12:" My ex just acted sketchy and secretive about where he was going or said he was working late... I later ... [snip!] ... bag! Falling out of love....I found myself not really caring about anything that had to do with him or if I saw him ."

OT, but that is the CUTEST Halloween costume I have ever seen!!

Quoting fxtradingmummy:" 2 questions If you have been cheated on. How did you find out? and did your OH act differently around you. And how did you know/feel you fell out of love with someone ( if you ever have)"

When I was about 18 weeks, my BD asked to go to the club and I didn't have a problem with it. So he left and was supposed to be back at like 4:30. At 8:30 he walked in the door like nothing happened! The next weekend I stayed home with his other son from a previous relationship while he went to a "football game." He didn't come home until 6:30. This happened again the following Friday night. Well, the next day he had his friend on speakerphone and they started talking junk to him for cheating on me! So that's how I found out.

He is now dating the other female who is a sophomore in high school, while he is 20 years old and has a 3 year old son and our son who will be born in March.

Now we don't talk period and he will not be in his child's life period!

Quoting fxtradingmummy:" 2 questions If you have been cheated on. How did you find out? and did your OH act differently around you. And how did you know/feel you fell out of love with someone ( if you ever have)"

I dated a guy for two years and I loved him. He was the first person I'd ever loved. I went to visit him after Christmas and he'd gotten an iPhone. I wanted to play with it since I was considering buying one. I was in the middle of playing a game on it when he got a text from "girlfraaan <3". I looked at him, he knew that there was no hiding it at that point and I found out he cheated on me for a year and a half with her and that she knew about me and everything. And to top it off, she was uuuuugly. I said have fun with that smurf, and I left. SOOOOO glad I didn't end up marrying that sorry excuse of a man.

I found he was cheating once cus he wasnt careful and i see all the messages, and the other time cus i seen the girl driving his car a block from where we lived, when supposedly he was at a party 20 minutes away with a friend so i followed her.. We arent together and my current DH hasn't cheated and vise versa.. you know when your out of love with someone when you see them and its like w.e. lol, what they do or who there with don't bother you.

<blockquote><b>Quoting MommyToWesley:</b>" OT, but that is the CUTEST Halloween costume I have ever seen!!"</blockquote>




Thanks! We made him crawl around in it..he looked like a baby lion with his head down! Lasted a whole 3 minutes before he freaked lol

After dating for 2yrs I found he was married but seperated!!! That was no excuse he could have told me. Shortly after I found out about the wife I find out im expecting..............I was hurt, devastated. betrayed, alone, and miserable. I went through my entire pregnancy alone he's a NO CALL NO SHOW......but I shall win in the end! Good luck  

Quoting Cap'n Obvious:" I dated a guy for two years and I loved him. He was the first person I'd ever loved. I went to visit ... [snip!] ... she was uuuuugly. I said have fun with that smurf, and I left. SOOOOO glad I didn't end up marrying that sorry excuse of a man."

Yeah, my BD's girlfriend knew about me the whole time! He even had sex with her in my car!

Thanks ladies my sister thinks the OH is cheating because he has put a lock on his Iphone and he claims to always be busy and always dressing up (over dressing IMO).... And im not sure what to tell her tbh as its never happen to me.
All they seem to do is fight anyway!! so i asked her if she still loves him and she said i dont no or care  

I found out my SO was cheating on me during a rough patch in our relationship because the girl he cheated with sent me a msg on Facebook...
Cant help with the second one never been in love before my SO and I still love him even though he annoys the hell out of me most of the time.

Quoting Bri (25 weeks)  :" Yeah, my BD's girlfriend knew about me the whole time! He even had sex with her in my car! "

Thats messed up  

Looking back on it, I think he wanted me to know without ever having to actually tell me. He handed me his cell phone and asked me to find a text message our friend had sent him about me. While scrolling to find this message I found a picture of another girl in her bra that she sent him. I clicked to view their whole convo and read enough to confront him. He didn't deny it but begged me to stay with him.
I don't know if I ever really loved him or just the thought of us being together but from that moment on, I had no problem not answering his messages or calls and moving on in life. It didn't hurt like it would have earlier in our relationship.