Quoting BαƚMαɳ:" Holy run on sentence. I think it's selfish of you not to give the baby his last name just because he doesn't want to marry you."
Quoting Jennybananna:" If he would walk away from his child just because they didnt have the same last name is that really someone you want to be married to? "
Quoting kate & tilly:" If you want the baby to have your last name then give them your last name. If he's threatening to leave ... [snip!] ... you'd really want the baby to have your last name. I'm a bit confused are you engaged with a ring but not at the same time?"
Quoting Chelsea Dawns Mama:" Selfish? What if they break up and he's a dead beat dad? I think its perfectly acceptable if he is refusing marriage to give your child your last name. You KNOW you'll be in there life for sure."
Quoting Sophie's dairy cow:" i have an 800 dollar ring. paid 400 bc it was on sale and the woman used her discount bc i helped her ... [snip!] ... money to get married right now. im like you get to propose again and he told me i already did once. he just doesnt understand. "