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Quoting O ♥ G:" <blockquote><b>Quoting shes*almost*one!:</b>" It's obviously not "no big thing" if ... [snip!] ... says no to doing things for him, and he has turned her down a million times. I think he will live if she turns him down once."

Seriously, ONE TIME...i'm not his servant lol

Quoting .B.:" He couldn't get off after an hour?"

Idk we tried those "horny goat" pills lol he came home with them   smoked a bowl and if I kept holding it I wouldve went numb...which after I got off I started to go numb and then I started to hurt so we stopped. Like I said, I offered and he said "no, its fine" then the next night I was too tired when he brought it up.

<blockquote><b>Quoting Kelly+Brandon=Blake:</b>" Seriously, ONE TIME...i'm not his servant lol"</blockquote>




And you asked him if he wanted to finish and he said no. So obviously it wasn't a huge issue for him or he would've said yes.

Quoting Kaysay:" Act like a girl? As if being a girl is an insult?"

Yes that's exactly what I'm saying  

Quoting O ♥ G:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Kelly+Brandon=Blake:</b>" Seriously, ONE TIME...i'm not his ... [snip!] ... And you asked him if he wanted to finish and he said no. So obviously it wasn't a huge issue for him or he would've said yes."

Yep, but I guess I'm just being a bitch and a weirdo..  

I definitely can be both at times for sure  

<blockquote><b>Quoting Kelly+Brandon=Blake:</b>" Yep, but I guess I'm just being a bitch and a weirdo..   I definitely can be both at times for sure  "</blockquote>



I don't think you're being a bitch at all, but I guess that's because I don't think women should be subservient to men at their every whim if they aren't doing the same in return. That's just me though. I never turn my man down for sex either, but he turns me down so he wouldn't be mad if I told him no. He would be fine with it.

I think all men have their period at certain times of the month though, lol.

I find the internalized misogyny going on in this thread to be very upsetting and disturbing...

<blockquote><b>Quoting Harlot O'Scara:</b>" I find the internalized misogyny going on in this thread to be very upsetting and disturbing..."</blockquote>




I'm sorry, could you dumb that down a little for me please? Lol internalized misogyny??

Quoting Kelly+Brandon=Blake:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Harlot O'Scara:</b>" I find the internalized misogyny going ... [snip!] ... disturbing..."</blockquote> I'm sorry, could you dumb that down a little for me please? Lol internalized misogyny??"

Misogyny - the hatred, distrust or general disrespect for women.

Internalized misogyny - When a woman is being misogynistic.

To say your husband is acting irrational, moody, etc and then equating that to him "acting like a girl" is a perfect example of this.

He's just acting smurffy, why does femininity/being a girl have anything to do with that? Crappy behavior is not gender-specific. jeeze.

<blockquote><b>Quoting Harlot O'Scara:</b>" Misogyny - the hatred, distrust or general disrespect for women. Internalized misogyny - When a woman ... [snip!] ... acting smurffy, why does femininity/being a girl have anything to do with that? Crappy behavior is not gender-specific. jeeze."</blockquote>




Lol. Oh man.

<blockquote><b>Quoting O ♥ G:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting Kelly+Brandon=Blake:</b>" Yep, but I guess I'm just being ... [snip!] ... mad if I told him no. He would be fine with it. I think all men have their period at certain times of the month though, lol."</blockquote>




Yeah definitely! Lol I mean it was a couple things together that irritated him on after the other so I understand because I've been there, I just hate that he will let stupid stuff ruin his mood. It's like he likes to stay pissed off or something. Every relationship has their ups and down though. This is just a rock in the road. I won't be venting here again lol jeeze

<blockquote><b>Quoting Harlot O'Scara:</b>" Misogyny - the hatred, distrust or general disrespect for women. Internalized misogyny - When a woman ... [snip!] ... acting smurffy, why does femininity/being a girl have anything to do with that? Crappy behavior is not gender-specific. jeeze."</blockquote>




My SO does "act like a girl" most of the time, that is just how I and plenty of other
People phrase it. Not that he's literally walking and talking like a girl but how he reacts to things. And as his friends call it "butthurt" lol it was a vent. . So many people get easily offended. Jeeze.

Quoting Kelly+Brandon=Blake:" Yes that's exactly what I'm saying  "

You don't have to get defensive, it was a legitimate question.

Quoting Kelly+Brandon=Blake:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Harlot O'Scara:</b>" Misogyny - the hatred, distrust or general ... [snip!] ... how he reacts to things. And as his friends call it "butthurt" lol it was a vent. . So many people get easily offended. Jeeze."

Okay...but you're saying by getting easily offended, acting butthurt, etc he's "acting like a girl" - how is that NOT offensive to women? Like, are you seriously not getting this?

Quoting Harlot O'Scara:" Okay...but you're saying by getting easily offended, acting butthurt, etc he's "acting like a girl" - how is that NOT offensive to women? Like, are you seriously not getting this?"

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