Quoting D.M:" If i dont have to let him see his son, and i have the texts of him saying that he doesnt want anything to do with him should i jst wait it out and see if files and show my texts in court?"
Does he do drugs? Have a record? What exactly do you have against him?
I think you should seriously call a lawyer and get a consultation with them. Mine did a 1 hr free consultation because SO took me to court for joint custody after we split up. He was on drugs though and failed his tests so he didnt get smurf. He's clean now and when we go back this month he'll be getting joint custody which is fine by me at this point.
Either way, the lawyer will tell you what chances you have in court, what the laws are in your state, etc etc.