Quoting mamaluvsher4babies:" What I am confused about is why are you trying to press charges now against him? So you can use the kids ... [snip!] ... but if your pressing charges against him cause of child custody your effed up!! If i am wrong about what I read I apologize"
oh smurf im sorry i was in a hurry earlier no thats not that case haha no i didnt just press charges and i have never tried to keep his kids from him EVER.. i have actually pushed him to be more envolved but the min i needed help he literally took them and 3 days later was in court... if you girl could see these papers... oy vey my response papers have always been based on a 50/50 meditation schedule so always always been fair to the children and him! visitation is not for the parents its for the kids and when my kids cry when they leave me and beg me to stay another night after just 2 nights of being with me, i cant be nice after so many times of my kids crying. not to mention all the smurf their father and his family have dont. domestic violence when to call the cops he broke my phone made me stay in the room. they stold my car, cops said civil matter (no money for court) kept my kids from seeing and calling me... its a HUGE mess!!! im going back to court soon and im hoping we can go back to the old 50/50 we had untill my son starts school then i would like to have him during the week and his dad can have him weekends and a few days during the week (not over night due to distance) and half of all holidays!... well see im getting an attorney in the next month!!